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My expertise is in helping people understand their cat (or cats) and their behavior. Questions are welcome even if you don't have a cat....just a question about them. Hopefully my experience, suggestions, and comments will be of help to you...and your cat (or cats). Looking through my past responses to questions will give you additional information and/or answers too. Domestic Cats = cats (no matter what breed) who are tame or not wild, or abandoned cats who were pets that became wild, but can be tamed again. Ferals = cats who are born with one or more parents who were wild stray cats. They usually have had no interactions with people. They have an inbred distrust of humans and are difficult to socialize. They are skittish, hide, and are afraid of people. They take a lot of time and patience to work with them. A lot of kittens from shelters had a feral parent.
Since I was a child, over 45 years, I have been owned by a LOT of cats and kittens of almost every temperament, behavior, and personality. I have had experience with neurotic, disabled (including blind), stray, and 'problem child' cats and kittens. (A few normal cats too!) Plus all the things a lifetime of owning cats and research has taught me. I also have experience in feral cat behavior (which is different from domestic cats), and some experience with feral colonies that includes colony feeding and feral cat TNR (trap/neuter/release).
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To be able to to help owners have a better understanding about their cats and their cat's behavior. And to be able to turn an owner's anger and irritation at their cat into understanding and compassion.
A person never stops learning, especially when dealing with cats and their behaviors.
Unfixed males and females are the most common 'behavior problem' and that is easily remedied by getting your pet spayed or neutered. Kittens can be spayed or neutered as young as 8-10 weeks old now. It is not necessary to wait 6-7 months as you did previously.
Please find an alternative to declawing! Did you know to declaw a cat the vet has to amputate the cats 'fingers' up to the first knuckle? It is a very painful operation, and a very slow and painful recovery, and some never recover. Would you like to dig in the dirt with chopped off fingers? Painful!
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Sara, My suggestion would be to bomb your house for fleas. That is typical behavior when there are fleas in the home. My cats will do that too during flea season. They do not want to get on the floor
Paula, Is the cat neutered yet? If not, that could be a lot of his behavior problem and I would get him done as soon as possible. Suggestion: play with him right before you go to bed. A pet laser
Jen, Did you do the introduction process correctly? It takes about 2 weeks to a month for things to smooth out, IF they are going to. You cannot put a new cat/kitten in with a resident cat and expect
Jennifer, That is typical feral behavior. Her brothers may have had a different father, one that was domesticated, in which case, the cat's behavior will be different. A cat can have kittens by each
Lori, Kittens don't go too far to use the litterbox. It may be an inconvenience, but it may be a good idea to use another litterbox for now. You also may want to use a night light where her regular

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