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Dr. Dennis W. Neder


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I am the author of the books "Being a Man in a Woman`s World I & II" and "1001 Places and Techniques to Meet Great Women" and 11 others. I`ve spent the last 20 years studying the art and science of every aspect of relationships, dating and sex, and have answered over 30,000 letters from readers from all over the world. I'm able to answer literally any question regarding dating, finding and approaching women, sex, getting phone numbers, setting dates, what to do on dates, how to set them (and make sure she shows), dealing with dating problems, conversion from dates to relationships, etc. Check my website at: for much more. If your question is particularly sensitive you can email me privately and securely at:

Experience in the area

Having helped over 30,000 people with their issues, I'm certainly qualified to help you with yours. I don't take the "feel good" approach at all. I'm direct and that comes from experience and research into what really works.


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Past/Present Clients

Many thousands ... and millions of readers all over the world.

What do you like about this subject?

There are so many female relationship experts out there, but very, very few male experts, and far fewer that really know their stuff! If women want to learn about men - how we think, how to attract (and especially) keep us, there's no better choice than to go directly to the source - a man.

What do you still hope to achieve/learn in this field?

I'm working on many new "relationship technology" tools including new books, CD's, DVD's and even radio and TV shows.

Something interesting about this subject that others may not know:

Men and women use VERY different communication systems! Sure the words sound alike, but everything from the meanings to the motivations can differ greatly. Learning to speak the language of the other is a task that anyone serious about meeting, dating or establishing quality, lasting relationships should pursue.

Something controversial or provocative about this subject

It really is a "woman's world"! Any man that wants to be successful with women had better learn that fact - and learn how to turn it to his advantage.

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Recent Answers from Dr. Dennis W. Neder

2016-08-20 Should I tell crush abroad I like her???:

Hello Daniel!    I agree. If you tell her that you like her, things will get awkward, but frankly, you have far, far bigger problems here.    Daniel, the reality is this: long-distance relationships ("LDR's")

2016-03-26 I need help:

Hello Daron!    Long distance??? Daron, FORGET IT!!    Wow, where should I start with you? First of all, long distance relationships (LDR's) NEVER, EVER work out! What's worse is that they do so much damage

2015-12-01 What should I do next?:

Hello Mustafa!    Here's the problem: you're long-distance. That's the end of it right there.    The unfortunate reality is that LDR's never work out. Even worse, those who attempt them wind up getting

2015-11-05 Is she confused?:

Hello Jason!    Here's what I suggest:    DROP THIS GIRL AND FIND SOMEONE WHO WANTS WHAT YOU WANT ALREADY!!    Jason! Serious!? What are you looking for, some magic spell or something? Drop her, ignore

2015-10-19 Is she in or out?:

Hello again Aaron!    I'm afraid I don't know enough about you, her or your situation to say whether it's "hasty" or not.    What I can say is this: action is far, far better than inaction.    Regards


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