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I am the author of the books "Being a Man in a Woman`s World I & II" and "1001 Places and Techniques to Meet Great Women" and 11 others. I`ve spent the last 20 years studying the art and science of every aspect of relationships, dating and sex, and have answered over 30,000 letters from readers from all over the world. I'm able to answer literally any question regarding dating, finding and approaching women, sex, getting phone numbers, setting dates, what to do on dates, how to set them (and make sure she shows), dealing with dating problems, conversion from dates to relationships, etc. Check my website at: http://beingaman.com for much more. If your question is particularly sensitive you can email me privately and securely at: dwneder@beingaman.com.
Having helped over 30,000 people with their issues, I'm certainly qualified to help you with yours. I don't take the "feel good" approach at all. I'm direct and that comes from experience and research into what really works.
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Many thousands ... and millions of readers all over the world.
There are so many female relationship experts out there, but very, very few male experts, and far fewer that really know their stuff! If women want to learn about men - how we think, how to attract (and especially) keep us, there's no better choice than to go directly to the source - a man.
I'm working on many new "relationship technology" tools including new books, CD's, DVD's and even radio and TV shows.
Men and women use VERY different communication systems! Sure the words sound alike, but everything from the meanings to the motivations can differ greatly. Learning to speak the language of the other is a task that anyone serious about meeting, dating or establishing quality, lasting relationships should pursue.
It really is a "woman's world"! Any man that wants to be successful with women had better learn that fact - and learn how to turn it to his advantage.
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Hello Emilio! Oh brother! Why oh why did you do this??? Actually, don't answer that: I already know. You were a coward and instead of going for what you really wanted you hoped (just as you do now!)
Hello Parvez! I hate it when things degrade so far you result in punishing one another rather than fixing problems. That's exactly what happened here. You didn't give her what she wanted or needed
Hey Alex! Of course you should just walk up to her and talk to her. This isn't some violent crime. It's just conversation! Likewise, being attracted to someone isn't a crime either. You're not taking
Hello Matthew! "Dear lady"??? I think you meant this for someone else. I am not a lady. I think you give women far, far too much credit. Maybe because you do this, you're having a very hard time
Hello again Alex! I think you have the wrong idea here. Too many guys make this mistake: they think they have to make a girl fall in love with them by being funny, charming, romantic, etc. That's not
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