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Hello Teresa! It's not "weird" to message him. It'd be "weird" to stalk him however. You have tons of context here because of the church. There's no reason you can't approach him, and there's no
Hello Rachel! Here's where this is going: nowhere. Here's what happened: yes, he was very interested in you. He wanted to put something together but simply didn't know how. Then, he started reading
Hello Fabi! While there might be some kind of attraction, I'm not sure it's really much to go on. You don't even know this guy yet to be attracted to him. You know how he looks and what he does for
Hello again Stella! It's a little different for men and women. I'd never advise a man to ask a woman out via email, but it's not as big a deal with women asking men. It's better to do it in person
Hello Stella! No, your email isn't immature at all. This is the sort of problem that everyone faces sometime in their lives. The good news is that there are real answers. First of all, it's not your
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