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A breakup can be one of the most painful experiences in life. Whether you are the dumper or the dumpee ~ it hurts. It requires a lot of personal reflection and change. It's never easy. I will tell you that I am extremely blunt and honest in my answers. I WILL NOT answer any questions asked by anyone under the age of 18. If you are looking for someone to sugarcoat the truth ~ please ask someone else. Also, I am only giving you my expert advice ~ I am not a fortune teller ~ I cannot predict the future and my main focal point is to help you get through a very difficult time because I have been there. XOXO
BBA Expert in the How to Attract that Man of Your Dreams Engaged numerous times ~ grew from a self destructive person to a healthy woman. Hope to have helped many people go through this extremely difficult time. Firm believer in the book/movie: HE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU and SHE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU ~ it is that simple
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That I am able to help others who are going through such a difficult period in their life - and to give them hope and empowerment to create something new and exciting for themselves.....
There is so much that I still have to learn..... the dynamics between 2 people is incredible and I learn something new everyday....
As painful as a breakup is.... there are a few general rules that I live by: Take Care of Yourself because you are worth it and FABULOUS.... Anything you CHASE in life usually runs away ..... and if this person doesn't want to be with you do you really want to settle??
Typically, when you break up ---- rarely does the relationship work out in the long term..... there are of course exceptions to the rule, but typically its a short term fix rather than a long term commitment....
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Dear Amy, We all want to feel needed and cared about and find that soul mate. Your gut instinct was screaming out to you hear.... It was telling you that something wasn't right, but you went with it
Dear Sagar, By no means are you a bloody criminal. You can't be in a relationship with someone that you are not physically attracted to ~ shallow or not ~ Now, with that said.... looks aren't the most
Dear Zoey, Well, first you have to decide if you want to be with your boyfriend or this new guy. If you really like the new guy then you need to break up with your boyfriend. It's also disrespectful
Dear Nesibe, Bad move on your part. Instead of focusing so much on what he is doing and whether or not he is calling you ~ focus in on your life. Keep yourself busy. Playing these games does not make
Dear Leila, If you really want to know whether or not he wants to be with you ~ these random meeting up's isn't a good idea because then he knows that you still care. If you just don't answer those requests

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