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Expertise
I will not help you cheat, so please do not ask me how to. If you are having issues with a cheater or suspect your mate of cheating, then, I can help you deal with the issue. I may have the answers on how to confront and deal with a cheating man or woman. I can answer questions concerning the physical and mental anguish that a cheating mate can cause. advise how to move on from this type of relationship. Or, advise on how to forgive and work on fulfilling a new start. I can also help in recognizing the signs and lies of a cheater. As well, as how to catch one in the act.
Experience in the area
I was in a 10 yr. relationship, in which the last 3 years of it was nothing but lies, cheating & emotional abuse. I almost lost my job, my friends and family because I could not let go of this co-dependent relationship. I went through a life changing experience and I came out realizing that I was stronger than I thought I was. I learned that no one is responsible for my happiness and well being. I also learned, that I will make mistakes, I will fall down, but, in the end, it's how I face the problem that will get me through the day.......
Education/Credentials
The school of Life. Life is all the education I have ever needed.
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Recent Reviews from Users
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| mel | 10/15/09 | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | |
| Dianna | 10/15/09 | 8 | 9 | 8 | 10 | Dear M, Thank you for your guidiance ..... |
| Tasha | 07/07/09 | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Thank you for your time and advice ..... |
| Andrew | 05/14/09 | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | I really do the appreciate the advice ..... |
| kristy | 05/11/09 | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Prob. the best advice I have ever ..... |
Recent Answers from Melissa Durazo
2009-10-14 Did that cheater truly love me, even for a moment?:
In all honesty. No, he did not truly love you. Nor, does he even love this other girl he is with. He stays with her only because, she puts up with his crap and she has no self esteem. I went through
2009-10-13 cheated early on, now pregnant and not sure whether to confront him or not:
From this point on, the only person you need to start worrying about is your soon to be born child. If you feel that there is some unsolved conflict between you and your bf, I suggest you try couples counseling
2009-10-11 Betrayed:
First off, although it feels as if you are going to die....The reality is, you will over come this pain. The end of a relationship is like a death. You will go through a process of hurt, denial, anger
2009-10-06 cheating boyfriend:
This is going to sound harsh. But, it's straight to the point. If he hasn't stopped cheating on you now, he won't stop cheating on you as "time goes on". Take your child and yourself out of a bad situation
2009-07-03 will he change?:
Well, I do not believe that ultimatums work.....You can not force someone who isn't willing to change on their own and for their own benefit. You are both just relieving the past over and over again, hurting
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