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Murphy Smith

U.S.
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Expertise

I can answer any general relationship / dating questions.

Experience in the area

I used to work as a counselor in a hospital part time for 15 years (16-32 hours a week) and my job was listening to patients who had relationship problems and giving them advice to help them cope with depression, suicidal behavior and thoughts, loss of a relationship or marriage, sexual issues and diseases, unwanted pregnancy, infidelity, abusive relationships, interracial relationships, prostitution, rape, drug addiction, alcohol addiction and abuse etc. I am very inquisitive and ask alot questions on various subjects, which has made me quite knowledgeable in general. I also have read many books on relationships and dating and if I do not know the answer to a question I will research it until I find the correct answer opposed to just pretending that I know about something that I do not. I have also had alot of friends, co-workers and even strangers tell me their problems and expect a sincere and candid answer because I am told that I appear to be a person that can be trusted and I am.

Education/Credentials

High school with some college. I have worked for the government for 10 yrs and as part of my job duties I am expected and required to counsel and advice hundreds of employees.

Past/Present Clients

I have counseled and advised hundreds of people in the past 25 years on numerous subjects.

What do you like about this subject?

I like helping people.

What do you still hope to achieve/learn in this field?

I am learning everyday because all people are unique and different.

Something interesting about this subject that others may not know:

At times in all healthy relationships there will be disagreements. Often people think if they had a good relationship they would always agree but no two people agree on everything. Communication and the ability to compromise with each other is very important in any relationship.

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Recent Answers from Murphy Smith

2009-11-15 What is going on?:

Patricia: You were totally right to leave him before because you thought that he was using you for sex and nothing more because that is just what he was doing and wants that arrangement back which is

2009-11-14 Why would she lead me on?:

Jason: I do not know why she would lead you on but since she is married you need to leave her alone and be totally professional when you deal with her. Even if she was not married would it be appropriate

2009-11-12 HELP!:

Tara: Thousands if not millions of guys would talk to a woman for months just for sex because to many guys having sex with a woman is just a game, challenge or something that they see as a conquest

2009-11-06 Is he in to me.:

totallyconfussed: Why would you want to be involved with a man who only calls you when he has been out drinking and talks about his ex and kids? This alone tells you that he is not a man that you should

2009-11-03 the plan for the date:

Siavash: I am not sure what indoor activity to recommend? Perhaps bowling, a movie or take her to a game arcade where they have video games etc. that you both can play? Murphy P.S. Good luck and

 

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