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I can answer any general relationship / dating questions.
I used to work as a counselor in a hospital part time for 15 years (16-32 hours a week) and my job was listening to patients who had relationship problems and giving them advice to help them cope with depression, suicidal behavior and thoughts, loss of a relationship or marriage, sexual issues and diseases, unwanted pregnancy, infidelity, abusive relationships, interracial relationships, prostitution, rape, drug addiction, alcohol addiction and abuse etc. I am very inquisitive and ask alot questions on various subjects, which has made me quite knowledgeable in general. I also have read many books on relationships and dating and if I do not know the answer to a question I will research it until I find the correct answer opposed to just pretending that I know about something that I do not. I have also had alot of friends, co-workers and even strangers tell me their problems and expect a sincere and candid answer because I am told that I appear to be a person that can be trusted and I am.
High school with some college. I have worked for the government for 10 yrs and as part of my job duties I am expected and required to counsel and advice hundreds of employees.
I have counseled and advised hundreds of people in the past 25 years on numerous subjects.
I like helping people.
I am learning everyday because all people are unique and different.
At times in all healthy relationships there will be disagreements. Often people think if they had a good relationship they would always agree but no two people agree on everything. Communication and the ability to compromise with each other is very important in any relationship.
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totallyconfussed: Why would you want to be involved with a man who only calls you when he has been out drinking and talks about his ex and kids? This alone tells you that he is not a man that you should
Siavash: I am not sure what indoor activity to recommend? Perhaps bowling, a movie or take her to a game arcade where they have video games etc. that you both can play? Murphy P.S. Good luck and
Jill: I have many friends who have epilepsy so I know how you feel and what you are going through. I would not tell people when you first meet them that you have epilepsy but get to know them a little
Mark: I would not deal with anymore as a friend or for possible sex again that may actually never happen again and even if it does it will continue to have her playing games with your feelings and emotions
Mark: Simply go up to her and tell her that you think that she is very pretty and that you would like to know if you can take her out because you would like to get to know her. You can even tell her
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