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I will be the first to admit that I am not a professional expert when it comes to dating, women/men, and interpersonal connections I will say that I have learned quite a bit vicariously from other people's experiences, and I have developed opinions on all of these topics. Think of my advice as a second opinion. After all people seek advice not when they don't know the answer, but when they want to hear what they sort of already knew from someone else to be sure that they aren't going crazy. lol.

I would be happy to answer all questions related to relationships, dating, self-confidence, or if a woman questioner, if they look better in the red or the blue one. lol. However there are a few questions I don't feel I would be especially good at answering, which I've listed below.

I hope more than anything that my advice and opinions will help give people perspective in their lives, and hopefully make them feel better about themselves and their situations. I will attempt answering questions for anyone of any age group or nationality. However it would be particularly useful to know the age of all people involved. It does make a difference towards the advice I give.

Can't Answer Very Well:
1). Questions that ask if a girl or guy likes the other (very difficult to know remotely)
2). Questions that ask that I predict relationship outcomes.
3). Questions that result in a negative number in a square root. lol.

Experience in the area

I don't really have any specific experience in this area other than learning from other people's mistakes and a few of my own, and whatever I've learned as a psychology major.

Education/Credentials

B.S. Psychology

What do you like about this subject?

Compatibility is an interesting topic and I would love to learn more about how social and personality psychologists determine what makes any two people a good match for one another. Sometimes opposites attract and other times birds of a feather flock together. Also topics on physically attractiveness. Particularly in what is now a rather superficial country. lol. God I wish I had money. lol.

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Recent Answers from James

2012-05-24 About break-ups:

Sounds like you equate money to happiness and want to have a controlling position in a relationship? Do you perhaps want to feel wanted and pay all the bills and basically mother someone or something?

2012-05-22 About break-ups:

I'm a little confused. I would think a woman might favor a guy who has a better job, makes more money, and doesn't party all the time. This almost sounds like an opposite form of discrimination than typical

2012-05-18 He's being horrible :'(:

Ok, it sounds like you have a plan. As for a girl and guy being "just friends" forever I think is a fairly common thing. At least here in the U.S. men are worried about ending up in a woman's "friend category

2012-05-17 He's being horrible :'(:

I think you got me mixed up with someone else. I am not Dr. Nedar. I'm James. lol. Also your phraze involving the second grade is one I'm not familar with. On a whole you have every right to see, dance

2012-05-14 Why has my fiancee accepted gifts from a 68 year old?:

Wow this is a new one by me. lol. I mean she never suggested that she was that uncomfortable with her body? Particularly if she considers her boob job to being part of her "looking her best?" I think if

 

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