General Dating Questions/Expert Profile

Expertise

****First and foremost. I only provide dating advice to men. I've received numerous emails from women asking for advice, I appreciate your questions but I only focus on mens advice. Thank you for understanding.**** I can answer questions regarding the general dating lifestyle specifically for men. Anywhere from how to approach and engage a conversation with women at bars or clubs to building attraction. Part of the dating world is the inner game we play and that has to do with confidence, self-image and shyness. I can give tailored advice on how to overcome shyness and build confidence in highly specific situations. The need for belonging is a fundamental part of human beings and that includes attracting a mate. Often times that proves difficult when you have a general lack of knowledge of the opposite sex coupled with inner anxiety. My advice usually involves a two part answer with an instant gratification solution followed by a long-term strategy. I however do not answer questions regarding long-term relationship issues. I might dive into that later but I prefer answering questions for the initial attraction phase. I also do not answer relationship questions asked by Women because that's another ball game and not my area of expertise.

Experience in the area

My advice comes from real-world experiences and being in the field. Most advice on dating out there comes from "theories" as to what should or should not work. These are mainly advice that are supposed to be socially acceptable. Instead I focus techniques that are field tested and proven. I've been in this field for about 6 years and found that the dating world is very counter-intuitive. Some of the most successful men in dating do things that aren't considered "the standard solution". I also published a book called Surf Social Waves where I explain my methods in greater detail.

Education/Credentials

I do not have any credentials in the field of psychology, most of what I teach comes from experience. But my educational background is Bachelors of Business Admin.