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expertise: over 7000 questions answered...B.A. Psychology Bates College;graduate study, Fordham Univ. School Social Work; technical editor, "dating for dummies", 2d edition, by dr joy browne; thoughtful consideration of your question, then insightful advice about love,romance and related issues given in an objective, non-judgmental manner...over 20 years of personal experience in both short and long term relationships...longer term consultations are available upon request...life experience: personal involvement in many relationships where issues of love, sex, intimacy, trust, etc., had to be dealt with and resolved...just having "experiences", however, isn`t enough...it`s the thoughtful reflection upon and analysis of what happened and why, that leads to learning and enlightenment...so tell me what`s on your mind and i`ll try to help, or tell you if i can`t...thanks
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Over 20 years personal experience in dating, including both short and long-term relationships.Thoughtful reflection and analysis upon same, as well as providing imput relating to issues of love and romance to friends and acquaintances.
BA, Psychology, Bates College, Lewiston, Me. Graduate study at Fordham University School of Social Work.
Life experience can really be the only teacher in this area; however going through the experience is not enough. What is necessary is a real awareness, sensitivity to, and reflection upon what has happened, what has been lost, what has been gained. Getting beyond one's own insecurities and subjectivities, and seeing the experience in the context of the bigger picture, are essential stepping stones to learning and loving.
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Recent Answers from Azure
2009-11-07 it's over:
i'd respectfully disagree with the psychologist; the bottom line is, the only thing left to happen here is you're abandoning all hope/moving on; the girl dated you a few times, realized, for whatever reason
2009-11-07 I can't decide...:
i think at 19, and after seeing someone only 3 months, talk of marriage is foolish, and your family is wrong to suggest you stay with ANYONE at such a young age, and with so little dating/life experience
2009-11-07 What now?:
there's only 2 choices, making a more defined physical move like kissing/making out, or discussing your feelings with her; my guess is if you're gonna spend this much time together as what appears to be
2009-11-06 Not really sure whats up:
happens all the time, but usually to girls by guys; only SHE knows the answer u want--once apart from the moment, people have 2d thoughts, return to their personal lives--who knows, perhaps another guy
2009-11-05 Complicated urges towards an untouchable ex.:
i wouldn't count on the order being overturned--even if it is, why go where you're not wanted?..at most, u can write her a letter expressing your feelings and see if she replies--otherwise, it's time to
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