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expertise: over 7000 questions answered...B.A. Psychology Bates College;graduate study, Fordham Univ. School Social Work; technical editor, "dating for dummies", 2d edition, by dr joy browne; thoughtful consideration of your question, then insightful advice about love,romance and related issues given in an objective, non-judgmental manner...over 20 years of personal experience in both short and long term relationships...longer term consultations are available upon request...life experience: personal involvement in many relationships where issues of love, sex, intimacy, trust, etc., had to be dealt with and resolved...just having "experiences", however, isn`t enough...it`s the thoughtful reflection upon and analysis of what happened and why, that leads to learning and enlightenment...so tell me what`s on your mind and i`ll try to help, or tell you if i can`t...thanks
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Over 20 years personal experience in dating, including both short and long-term relationships.Thoughtful reflection and analysis upon same, as well as providing imput relating to issues of love and romance to friends and acquaintances.
BA, Psychology, Bates College, Lewiston, Me. Graduate study at Fordham University School of Social Work.
Life experience can really be the only teacher in this area; however going through the experience is not enough. What is necessary is a real awareness, sensitivity to, and reflection upon what has happened, what has been lost, what has been gained. Getting beyond one's own insecurities and subjectivities, and seeing the experience in the context of the bigger picture, are essential stepping stones to learning and loving...ps..azure announces CT matchmaking service..for more, go to wishuponastar-ct.com
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Recent Answers from Azure
2012-02-04 question:
only HE really knows what his feelings are--he could easily have a girl he sees on weekends, or he could just see you as a mid-week sex object; you're on the right track..let him seek YOU out, reject this
2012-02-03 What should I do?:
no need to put a time limit on it, because as the confident guy you want to be, you don't "wait" for anyone..instead, you focus on meeting/dating others, she becomes a name you have in a BOOK of names
2012-01-27 Spending time together..:
he's gotten WAY TOO comfortable with you, and no doubt is taking you for granted; INFORM him of what you need to make this work..if he refuses, you're with the wrong guy; you've allowed him to tailor the
2012-01-26 Embarrassed about online dating?:
meeting on dating sites is extremely popular nowadays, so i'm not sure why you're so uptight about it; if you don't lie to mom, then tell her the truth..as for the guy, explain your concerns to him, then
2012-01-24 Is there anything wrong with being a cougar for life?:
it's not about right/wrong...we're all entitled to our personal preferences regarding lifestyle choices; my concern would be if there were underlying reasons for making them..is it low self-esteem that
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