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I am the author of the books "Being a Man in a Woman`s World I & II" and "1001 Places and Techniques to Meet Great Women" and 11 others. I`ve spent the last 20 years studying the art and science of every aspect of relationships, and have answered over 30,000 letters from readers all over the world. My main focus is men`s relationships with women, but I also have many female readers and answer questions for them regularly as well.
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Hello Hannah! Just 15-20 years ago (and before) people got married for very different reasons than they do today and did so under very different circumstances. You can't really compare marriage today
Hey Christina! Is that a question? Here's what is far more likely: you don't pay attention to the signals from the guys that are available. If you're not getting approached by them, you aren't sending
Hello again Christina! Absolutely this gives you enough to approach him! (In fact, I'm proud of you for thinking this way!) As I tell guys all the time, the very best you can hope for is interest
Hello Christina! You sure give me a lot of credit. I'm afraid I simply don't read minds. He's obviously proud of how he's doing (and he should be!) but that isn't enough to tell me what his interests
Hello Andrew! I think trying to change the mother's opinion is the wrong direction. It's far tougher to swim upstream than down. Consider this: her mother has had 10 months to solidify her own mistaken
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