General Dating Questions/Expert Profile


Ask A Question

Dr. Dennis W. Neder

U.S.
Available

Follow me on:
      

Expertise

I'm able to answer any sort of question related to the approach, meeting people, dating, sex, relationships, break-ups, non-legal marriage and divorce questions, and anything in between. I've helped over 30,000 people with their individual issues. IMPORTANT: Please, PLEASE don't ask me, "what was he thinking..." or "why did he say..." types of questions! I DO NOT READ MINDS! There are 1,001 reasons why someone does what they do, says what they say or thinks what they think. If you *REALLY* want to know what they were thinking, saying or why they were acting that way - go ask them! Be sure to check out my FAQ's on my website at: http://beingaman.com. You can email me directly at: dwneder@beingaman.com.

Experience in the area

I am the author of the books "Being a Man in a Woman`s World I & II" and "1001 Places and Techniques to Meet Great Women" and 11 others. I`ve spent the last 20 years studying the art and science of every aspect of relationships, and have answered over 30,000 letters from readers all over the world. My main focus is men`s relationships with women, but I also have many female readers and answer questions for them regularly as well.

Education/Credentials

Doctor of Philosophy


This expert accepts donations:      

Average Ratings

Recent Reviews from Users

Read More Comments

    K = Knowledgeability    C = Clarity of Response    P = Politeness
UserDateKCPComments
Ben05/24/12101010very very thorough and thoughtful analysis of .....
Chris05/23/121010 
Andrew05/21/12101010Thanks! I'll give this a go and .....
Seth05/20/121010Thanks for your help
Seth05/20/12 

Recent Answers from Dr. Dennis W. Neder

2012-05-24 Is Marriage Obsolete?:

Hello Hannah!    Just 15-20 years ago (and before) people got married for very different reasons than they do today and did so under very different circumstances. You can't really compare marriage today

2012-05-22 Is he interested or just playing with me?:

Hey Christina!    Is that a question?    Here's what is far more likely: you don't pay attention to the signals from the guys that are available. If you're not getting approached by them, you aren't sending

2012-05-21 Is he interested or just playing with me?:

Hello again Christina!    Absolutely this gives you enough to approach him! (In fact, I'm proud of you for thinking this way!)    As I tell guys all the time, the very best you can hope for is interest

2012-05-21 Is he interested or just playing with me?:

Hello Christina!    You sure give me a lot of credit. I'm afraid I simply don't read minds.    He's obviously proud of how he's doing (and he should be!) but that isn't enough to tell me what his interests

2012-05-20 Girlfriend's mom hates me:

Hello Andrew!    I think trying to change the mother's opinion is the wrong direction. It's far tougher to swim upstream than down.    Consider this: her mother has had 10 months to solidify her own mistaken

 

Ask A Question

General Dating Questions

All Answers


Answers by Expert:


Ask Experts

Volunteer


©2012 About.com, a part of The New York Times Company. All rights reserved.