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I'm able to answer any sort of question related to the approach, meeting people, dating, sex, relationships, break-ups, non-legal marriage and divorce questions, and anything in between. IMPORTANT: Please, PLEASE don't ask me, "what was he thinking..." or "why did he say..." types of questions! I DO NOT READ MINDS! There are 1,001 reasons why someone does what they do, says what they say or thinks what they think. If you *REALLY* want to know what they were thinking, saying or why they were acting that way - go ask them! Be sure to check out my FAQ's on my website at: http://beingaman.com. You can email me directly at: dwneder@beingaman.com
I am the author of the books "Being a Man in a Woman`s World I & II" and "1001 Places and Techniques to Meet Great Women". I`ve spent the last 20 years studying the art and science of every aspect of relationships, and have answered over 25,000 letters from readers all over the world. My main focus is men`s relationships with women, but I also have many female readers and answer questions for them regularly as well.
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Hello John! Yes, it could be another man. In fact, that's likely. It's also that you didn't pull the trigger when you had the chance. She was probably seeing this guy already when that night came and
Hello Ana! Yes, the job market is very, very thin right now. On the up-side, I do have a number of ideas for you. Just keep in mind that you're going to have to get a little creative here if you want
Hello again Sia! Don't try to be too formulaic with dating. Try to go after "every Friday night" or "twice every week" isn't what you're going after at all. You have a life to live too (right?) and
Hello Sai! I agree that you missed those years. The good news is that it's never too late to start. I didn't get started on my dating "career" until my late 20's - so you're even way ahead of me!
Hello Annie! What's your real question here: how to meet older guys or how to prevent younger guys from hitting on you? Frankly, the answer is the same: make yourself up to be older and more mature
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