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20th year in the field. Managed and directed clinical programs. Now, I work out of my own office as well as supervise counselors
California Association of Marriage & Family Therapists
The California Therapist
B.A. Psychology M.S. Counseling Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist
Hero of the Heart - Covina Valley USD
I work with individuals, couples, families and children
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| Drew | 11/19/09 | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Although I acted before your response, this ..... |
| nichole | 11/15/09 | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Thank you for your reply. It helped ..... |
| Charlene | 11/05/09 | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Thank you for your advice. It's very ..... |
| Caiti | 10/29/09 | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | |
| Amy | 10/27/09 | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Thank you very much. Some great advice |
Nichole, this sounds disheartening. It sounds like you have been holding out hope that he would have become the marrying type already. This does not mean he will never get there. I would sit down with
Hi Angela, I like hearing your commitment and interest in making things better. I would ask him how he feels about the relationship. Ask him what is going well, how he thinks it can be even better
Ok Erica. I will say that his believing that things are moving too fast is certainly a concern but this may not be the end of the world. I would wonder though how much time the two of you have been spending
I am sorry Lisa. This sounds like so much to be dealing with. I too am confused as to what he may be experiencing. The fact that he is not communicating specifics leads me to think he is somehow sabotaging
Charlene, I appreciate your reaching out during this confusing time. Clearly though, when it comes to feelings, this is not an easy decision. I can only imagine how you must feel. My concern here lies
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