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(I have expertise in both, "How to choose a compatible mate"--or--"how to bridge personality differences") Relationship challenges: communication, power struggles, controlling issues, partner being late, affection and closeness, little irritations, pouting, mood swings, criticalness, perfectionism, opposite environmental needs, companionship challenges,stubbornness,dealing with a skeptical partner, too thrifty, too generous, helps everybody but you, and when boredom sets in.
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Experience: 25 years in the field of Personistics (innate personality characteristics)that includes: private personality profiling, Life Guidance Coaching, Business consulting, teaching numerous classes & seminars, lectures, and participating in radio talk shows.
We each are made of over 60 innate personality traits. Twenty two of them greatly influence interaction with others. It is wonderful to get away from blaming and hurt feelings, and talk about trait differences. When you understand traits, there are simple and specific things you can do to bridge your differences and strengthen your relationships
Since each person is unique in his own combination of traits, every time I do a personality assessment I learn a little bit more about how traits interact with each other. This helps me in my goal to spread this knowledge throughout the country, and thus help people see themselves and their fellowman in a kinder way.
Did you know that according to the latest studies on genetics, some experts estimate 80@ of our behavior stems from our genetic pattern? That leaves only approximately 20% to our environment. This means that we have been wasting a lot of time in examining our past to solve today's challenges. I can help you focus right now on what you can do about the challenges in your relationships.
You can look at another person and read his personality traits. While today, I hardly get any strange looks when I tell people what I do; 25 years ago many thought it was pretty weird. Each trait is centered in the brain and each has a physical counterpart. This means the shape of your nose, lips, cheeks, eyebrows, chin, eyes,ears, and various parts of the head, show your personality. You also c
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Dear Krysten, It is hard for me to advise you because I didn't let my children date or have girlfriends or boyfriends, other than friends where they did things together as a group until they were 16
Hello Karen, It doesn't look too good for this relationship for several reasons. While I do not think it necessary for the one you marry to bond with your daughter and, in fact, should not be pushed
Hello Vibha, It is hard to know what another person is thinking and feeling but he might be taking you for granted because you have pretty much wrapped your whole life around him instead of being happy
Dear Nelly, Yes, I think you got into a serious relationship too young. This happens frequently where one or both feel like life has passed them by and they have not had an opportunity to explore. Keeping
Dear Tony, What you do depends on how much self-value and self-respect you have. If you are looking for a mutually loving and giving partnership then this relationship is not it. I know a woman who
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