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(I have expertise in both, "How to choose a compatible mate"--or--"how to bridge personality differences") Relationship challenges: communication, power struggles, controlling issues, partner being late, affection and closeness, little irritations, pouting, mood swings, criticalness, perfectionism, opposite environmental needs, companionship challenges,stubbornness,dealing with a skeptical partner, too thrifty, too generous, helps everybody but you, and when boredom sets in.
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Experience: 25 years in the field of Personistics (innate personality characteristics)that includes: private personality profiling, Life Guidance Coaching, Business consulting, teaching numerous classes & seminars, lectures, and participating in radio talk shows.
We each are made of over 60 innate personality traits. Twenty two of them greatly influence interaction with others. It is wonderful to get away from blaming and hurt feelings, and talk about trait differences. When you understand traits, there are simple and specific things you can do to bridge your differences and strengthen your relationships
Since each person is unique in his own combination of traits, every time I do a personality assessment I learn a little bit more about how traits interact with each other. This helps me in my goal to spread this knowledge throughout the country, and thus help people see themselves and their fellowman in a kinder way.
Did you know that according to the latest studies on genetics, some experts estimate 80@ of our behavior stems from our genetic pattern? That leaves only approximately 20% to our environment. This means that we have been wasting a lot of time in examining our past to solve today's challenges. I can help you focus right now on what you can do about the challenges in your relationships.
You can look at another person and read his personality traits. While today, I hardly get any strange looks when I tell people what I do; 25 years ago many thought it was pretty weird. Each trait is centered in the brain and each has a physical counterpart. This means the shape of your nose, lips, cheeks, eyebrows, chin, eyes,ears, and various parts of the head, show your personality. You also c
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Hi. Yes, do not call and let him call you. Then suggest that you date as friends so that the pressure will be off to do more, then follow things I said. Be cheerful and not all sad when you talk to him
Dear Melissa, You are smart, smart, smart for not moving in with him. Do not do it. You are right, it is like having all the benefits of marriage with no commitment and it is just too easy to like
Hi. The question you ask yourself is he willing and anxious to get counseling to work out his issues? If so, then there might be hope. If he refuses to get help then he is not serious about working
HI. This is not a good relationship for you because this man is not stable. He is also willing to play mind games with you by telling you he doesn't want to lose you but he really doesn't want to have
Hi. At your age it is very common for couples to grow apart. There is usually a difference in the level of maturity, as you put it, and because you have been independent it is hard for you to admire and
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