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I am able to answer questions regarding dating, courtship, and marriage after divorce. I feel equipped to address questions and comments regarding old baggage and past mistakes. I can also answer questions pertaining to blended families and step-children. I can not answer questions that involve manipulating the partners behavior or outlook.
I am a minister that teaches and counsels G-d's instruction for stable relationships. My husband and I have both been married before. I have worked with battered women and facilitated groups for men with anger issues. As a minister, I have officiated several weddings in the past decade, with only one resulting in divorce.
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| vibha | 05/19/12 | 10 | 10 | 10 | |
| Steve | 05/13/12 | 9 | 9 | 10 | |
| Jonny | 05/10/12 | 10 | 10 | 10 | |
| cristy | 05/08/12 | 10 | 10 | 10 | I really see your point and agree ..... |
| Adisa | 05/07/12 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Friendly and knowledgeable expert. You're in great ..... |
Dear Vibha, I think when you suggested putting the marriage off until careers etc. were established, he may have taken that as not a rejection, but that he needed to accomplish more before you'd marry
Dear Cristy, Like any "extra-curricular" activity or hobby, it needs to be in moderation. I don't know how many nights a week he's playing pool, now, but I'd say the two of you need to find some sort
I'd say for the time being, only respond to her texts and or contact. I wouldn't talk for great lengths of time at this point. I don't know if she's trying to decide between you and the other guy or
Dear Jonny, Anyone who is not over their past is no one with whom to try to build a future. She'll have to determine where her heart truly is and then look forward. I wish I could offer you something
Dear Selena, The fact that you've done all the things with this man means you are no longer "eligible" for a first time relationship, so places you in a different place now for a man who has never been
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