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I can answer questions about keeping love in committed relationships alive and fresh. I can help couples overcome obstacles that they might encounter in their relationships and help get them back on the path to a strong, healthy, and committed partnership. I am not the guy to go to if you want to know how to meet someone. (I've never been good at opening lines.) I am dedicated to keeping the romance fires burning even after the embers of a new relationship turn cold. Let me help you find ways to be excited about each other and your relationship again.
I have written three books, "Out of the Doghouse" , "A Labor With Love", and my most recent book, "The Finance of Romance" (http://couplescommittedtolove.com/a/books/) to help keep romance alive in relationships. I give romance advice on radio and podcasts (local and syndicated) have had a regular newspaper column and have writted scores of articles regarding love. I founded the website, CouplesCommittedToLove.com, where I offer advice and give daily romance tips. I also have hosted the seminars, "Romance 101" and "The Valentine Prep Course".
Sophisticated Groom Magazine, Santa Barbara Independent Magazine, MenStuff.com, SBParentSource.com, The Goleta Valley Voice, EducationNews.org, Atlanta Parent Magazine, Coastal Woman, Marriage Partnership
Bachelor's Degree from the University of California, Santa Barbara, as well as a teaching credential.
KLITE Community Hero and Ben & Jerry's Citizen Cool for my work with children and their focus on academic and personal improvement. Listed in Who's Who in America. Name was placed on the National Wall of Tolerance for taking a stand against hate, injustice and intolerance. In high school, voted "Most Likely To Host Saturday Night Live by 1999". Unfortunately, Lorne Michaels never called.
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