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Expertise
I can answer questions about how to make a long distance relationship work, how to work through conflicts that may occur within a relationship (ie jealousy, trust issues, controlling behavior, insecurity). I also know how to work WITH parents and siblings in a positive way so that they respect a couple's boundaries, and don't try to chase significant others away. I can answer questions about sex (whether you are being sexually harrassed, or if you are trying to figure out if you are ready to have sex). I can also answer questions about abuse (whether it is emotional or physical) and provide solutions and ways to protect yourself. I can also answer questions about how to read body language, how to approach a crush and get to know someone better. I can help people navigate conflict between friends and significant others. I know how to fix dating mishaps (ie how to minimize an awkward moment and turn it around to YOUR advantage).
Experience in the area
I had many different types of relationships when I was in high school, and I believe that going to college also helped me better understand the dynamics of dating. I have younger cousins that are in high school, and I frequently help them with their problems (and their friends' problems too!). When you are a teen, dating can be very confusing and tricky, I have the experience and know how to help people work through their problems in a positive way. I've dealt with just about every problem out there, from friends who gossip to over protective parents. I understand that when a problem arises, it can be devastating, and sometimes a person just needs someone to listen to what they are going through and provide some helpful words.
Education/Credentials
I recently graduated from college with a BA in History.
Average Ratings
Recent Reviews from Users
K = Knowledgeability C = Clarity of Response T = Timeliness P = Politeness| User | Date | K | C | T | P | Comments |
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| Alex | 10/31/09 | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | |
| Steve | 10/31/09 | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | cheers buddy |
| Layla | 10/29/09 | 9 | 10 | 10 | 10 | |
| Conor | 10/29/09 | 9 | 10 | 10 | 9 | Thabks very much that was helpfull at ..... |
| cody | 10/22/09 | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Thank you so much for your help ..... |
Recent Answers from Northstar
2009-10-29 Am i frigid?:
First dates are often times awkward, especially if you don't have much experiencing dating. Go out with this young man again, he's clearly interested in you and he IS making an effort to show you a good
2009-10-26 Girlfriend's best friend:
So, you want to break up with your current girlfriend in an agreeable manner- ONLY because you hope to gain her blessing and well wishes for you to go after her friend... I hate to break it to you, but
2009-10-21 dating:
Both women AND men make the same mistakes when it comes to dating jerks. They are confusing 'love' with lust. Both women AND men are capable of becoming attached to another person, despite the fact that
2009-10-20 How do I get this older guy to like me ?:
When you are a few years older, three years won't make a big difference. But right now there is just too much of a maturity gap. I realize that you may think you are mature, but look at it this way: you
2009-10-20 why cant I find a girlfriend?:
You need to stop focusing on the things you have no control over. You can't control how other women feel about you, but you CAN control yourself. You feel a loss of power due to all the rejection you have
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