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sounds more like you're just servicing him than having an intimate, passionate exchange of loving affection...what's he doing for YOU?...the real question isn't about a more exciting blowjob, it's about
he first needs to see a urologist to evaluate hormone levels; as to his reasoning, i don't really buy it--his lack of desire has a different cause; if it's not physical, then i'd suggest couples counseling
no way to give a very helpful answer without knowing alot more about you/him/the relationship..there could be many causes, as you can see; in order to get a better answer, you would need to see an endocrinologist
do you masturbate?..age?..he's ok with no sex?..does he masturbate?
the "selfless" theory is bogus; better chance that he's addicted to porn and has nothing left, or is saving it for someone else; does he masturbate?..if so, how often? (i realize it's hard for you to know)
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