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We often ask questions of the unseen and unknown, but most of the times, we're the ones that hold the key. I'm a counselor in family/sexual relationship, anger management, and self help, and have been for upward of ten years. I'm here to help you see the blind-spots that you've missed, and guide you toward the light. I'll research your problem/s/ and maybe even offer phone counseling if you so desire. Don't ask me about future, I haven't bought my crystal, haha. Don't ask me medical questions, without examining your medical history and person, I cannot answer such- best to seek out a local professional to be safe. Sex is a wonderful thing, so let us try to make it so.
Experience in the area
Ten years of professional and voluntary counseling works have shown me much. I have walked with many others through various issues, some obvious and simple, some nearly impossible to imagine.
Organizations
Richmond Chimo Crisis Center
Education/Credentials
Interpersonal/Social Relation Specialist, University of British Colombia Socialwork, 2005.
Past/Present Clients
Over 500.
What do you like about this subject?
I think that it's important to learn how to view and have sex in a healthy manner, since it's a powerful thing that we're born with and it's something that many of us didn't learn about in school. Sure, they taught you about baby and protection, but not many of them would talk to you about how to please your partner/s/ in bed, or how to be pleased.
What do you still hope to achieve/learn in this field?
I want to learn everything sexual about my self, and people of the opposite gender, and pass the information on, so that we can all have a healthy and enjoyable sex life.
Something interesting about this subject that others may not know:
Sexual activities are only 'bad' for you, or your soul, when they're done wrong.
Something controversial or provocative about this subject
Why does our society think that violent videogames and cartoons are okay for kids, but not sexual materials?
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| Mel | 04/26/12 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Thanks for your help! My boyfriend and ..... |
Recent Answers from Johnny St. Tai
2012-05-07 getting motivated:
One ting to keep in mind is that while being in the mood during sex is nice, it is not always needed. Sometimes the act of doing it may put you in the mood even if you started out not in the mood. Also
2012-04-24 Trouble getting him in:
Use alot, and I do mean alot, of lubes, and have you go on top- this way the lubes and gravity will help you- also know that there are some women who are born with very very tough hymen, and it is not
2012-04-19 Difficulties having sex with my boyfriend:
It is possible to fake sexual reactions- many many cases of gay men who do not admit they're gay go through years having sex with women even when they feel no attraction towards women at all. But I tend
2012-04-19 Difficulties having sex with my boyfriend:
It is quite possible that this is a serious psychological issue with him. Maybe some really bad experience when he was a child that you don't know about- it doesn't even have to be sex related- it could've
2012-04-15 Scared to Have Sex:
I'm almost 100% sure that there's something that happened when you were very little, something bad, not even have to do with sex, maybe accident, abuse, etc- it can even be something as simple as being
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