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We often ask questions of the unseen and unknown, but most of the times, we're the ones that hold the key. I'm a counselor in family/sexual relationship, anger management, and self help, and have been for upward of ten years. I'm here to help you see the blind-spots that you've missed, and guide you toward the light. I'll research your problem/s/ and maybe even offer phone counseling if you so desire. Don't ask me about future, I haven't bought my crystal, haha. Don't ask me medical questions, without examining your medical history and person, I cannot answer such- best to seek out a local professional to be safe. Sex is a wonderful thing, so let us try to make it so.

Experience in the area

Ten years of professional and voluntary counseling works have shown me much. I have walked with many others through various issues, some obvious and simple, some nearly impossible to imagine.


Richmond Chimo Crisis Center


Interpersonal/Social Relation Specialist, University of British Colombia Socialwork, 2005.

Past/Present Clients

Over 500.

What do you like about this subject?

I think that it's important to learn how to view and have sex in a healthy manner, since it's a powerful thing that we're born with and it's something that many of us didn't learn about in school. Sure, they taught you about baby and protection, but not many of them would talk to you about how to please your partner/s/ in bed, or how to be pleased.

What do you still hope to achieve/learn in this field?

I want to learn everything sexual about my self, and people of the opposite gender, and pass the information on, so that we can all have a healthy and enjoyable sex life.

Something interesting about this subject that others may not know:

Sexual activities are only 'bad' for you, or your soul, when they're done wrong.

Something controversial or provocative about this subject

Why does our society think that violent videogames and cartoons are okay for kids, but not sexual materials?

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Recent Answers from Johnny St. Tai

2017-01-26 How can I help to boost my boyfriend's confidence?:

Have you tried getting him drunk? not totally sloshed of course, but often alcohol will loosen a guy up enough so he's not so unsure. Also, stop saying, and be more active and forceful physically- that

2016-09-19 How to move forward in a new relationship?:

Dear Sara; it sounds like you've not worked through your past trauma before starting a new relationship. This is often a bad and dangerous idea- since we must first be whole before we can be whole for

2016-05-26 Intimacy issues:

The problem is not with you- it is with porn. He watches porn, and then compares you to what he sees in porn, and no matter how good you are, you'll never match up to porn which, is not real BTW. You need

2015-11-21 oral sex problem:

Seems your husband just needs a lesson in fairness. Have you tried withholding oral sex till he does it for you? There are also creams and other flavored lubes you can purchase that will make the whole

2015-11-03 sexless marriage temporary or permanent???:

It sounds to me that there are deeper issues with your wife if you talking about sex makes her lash out at you, so unfortunately, therapy is what I'd recommend and soon. Trying other things, avoiding it


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