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I am a parent trainer, psychotherapist, and author specializing in parenting issues.During the past 40 years I`ve worked with parents with discipline problems and challenging children. I give frequent lectures and workshops related to discipline, social skills, and aggressive children. I consult with various agencies and schools where there are child behavior problems. I am listed in the American Psychological Associations` media panel as an expert on parenting and am frequently quoted in leading magazines and newspapers.
I have worked in a juvenile court as a clinical psychologist and as a psychotherapist in private practice. In the Oakland County (MI) Juvenile Court, I developed an award-winning parent training program for parents of adolescent delinquents. In addition I have done group therapy with adolescent delinquents using a social skills-building model. I have consulted with courts, schools, churches, preschools, and domestic violence shelters in areas of parenting.
I received my BA with a major in Psychology in 1963 from Wayne State University. I got my MA in Clinical Psychology from Oakland University in 1972.
I am a member of the American Psychological Association and the Michigan Psychological Association. I have written pamplets, newspaper articles, and professional journal articles. I have been the Coping With Kids columnist for the Oakland Press for 21 years, and my columns also appear weekly in the Staten Island Advance. I have been the author or co-author of 12 books. My books include, 8 WEEKS to A WELL-BEHAVED CHILD, CHILDREN WHO SAY NO WHEN YOU WANT THEM TO SAY YES, and 6 STEPS TO AN EMOTIONALLY INTELLIGENT TEENAGER. My latest parenting book is THE FATHERSTYLE ADVANTAGE. I have appeared on over 175 radio and TV shows related to my books and parenting. For more information about me, my books and columns, go to my website at Jameswindell.com
Most teenagers are great kids, but adolescents in general are a lot of fun because they are at an important point in their lives where they're trying to figure how who they while attempting to deal with parents, teachers and friends.
I always hope to more fully understand teenagers.
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Hello, It sounds like it would be best if she lived (continues to live) elsewhere. Maybe with counseling and living somewhere else that things will settle down and she may want to spend more time with
Hello Tamara, A great many remarried couples have problems related to a stepchild's behavior. You didn't say how long you've been married, but I would guess it's been for a relatively short period
Hello Brandi, You are right. Changes are expected around ten years of age as many girls enter adolescence about this time. Which means that changes in hormones bring about mood and behavior changes.
Hello Diana, Since your son is 20 years of age, and since you have offered to help him many times, he has had opportunities to learn responsibility. There may be many reasons for him not learning responsibility
Hello Jennifer, Your daughter sounds bright, but if she has ADHD then it is likely that she may tend to act impulsively. Certainly in using discipline with her you have to take her ADHD into consideration
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