Parenting --Teens/Expert Profile

Expertise

My own dysfunctional youth in an alcoholic family helped me decide to raise my children with love, acceptance, and honesty. It must have worked. We`ve got terrific kids. Those I've answered on this site usually feel I've been helpful in their unique situations. Our world is so much better when we lift instead of crushing. Every child is worth more than any bank can hold. If I can help at all, it will be in teaching both parent and child of their own personal value to humanity, and how to punch through the noise of the moment to find their greater purpose. Together, we can all make a better world.

Past/Present Clients

Tired, poor, huddled masses; homeless, tempest-tossed.

What do you like about this subject?

I love people, and consider everyone valuable to humanity as a whole. Teens are my favorite age, as they are generally idealistic and unafraid of failure. They do need guidance, and judging from my feedback, I've been able to assist in a little "course correction" here and there.

What do you still hope to achieve/learn in this field?

To teach parents that guidance is a good thing, and most teens are begging for it. They don't want pals-they choose their own. They want, need, and deserve parents who will teach them right from wrong and be totally honest with them.

Something interesting about this subject that others may not know:

Boys and girls brains process information differently, and problem-solve in distinctive ways. Each age is a step in their development, and with proper guidance, parents can lead them into a happy and successful adulthood.

Something controversial or provocative about this subject

Some parents think it's "cool" to provide alcohol or drugs for teens, allow them to break the law, or view pornography. These choices are bad for all concerned, and only lead to disaster down the road. I've seen it. Don't do it. Get help for YOURSELF first if you are doing these destructive behaviors.