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I work with teens and parents on a weekly basis. I have learned that one way of parenting doesn't fit every teen. Being able to be flexible and a good listener can really cultivate a great relationship between a parent and teen. I will give you a no-nonsense pratical way to help your relationship
I am a Masters level licensed Marriage & Family Therapist presently in private practice.
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| Victoria | 02/06/12 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Thanks David! I have tried but knowing ..... |
| Kathy | 12/21/11 | 10 | 10 | 10 | I am very grateful for your thoughtful ..... |
| rebecca | 02/17/11 | 10 | 10 | 10 | |
| Nicola | 02/17/11 | 10 | 10 | 9 | Thanks David for some great advice - ..... |
| Joan | 01/30/11 | 5 | 5 | 5 |
Kris, You are spoiling your son by continuing to give him chances. He knows that you view him as a good kid and thus is using it against you. He can't take responsibility for himself as long as there
Jilleon, Your brother doesn't simply need a talking to. He needs direct police involvement. He is in a place in his life where he will not listen to any adult authority so it seems like he needs to be
Kathy, People respond best to positive rewards, but they also respond to negative consequences. This is something that has been proven over and over again in studies so why would you go against this with
Nicola, Stop caving in. You appear weak and she loses respect for you. Yes, she may not like it, but your alternative is to appear weak and then lose respect for yourself because you know you are not
Janet, While this is distressing to you it seems that he is acting like he has been somewhat spoiled. I know this was a while ago, but If it continues I would encourage you to accept that he wants to
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