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I can answer questions about issues arising in marriage: conflict, communication, listening, anger, verbal abuse, household responsibilities, infidelity, addiction/substance abuse, pornography, physical abuse, time spent together, finances, in-laws, death of a spouse or child, separation and divorce, problem-solving and much more.
I have over 30 years as a counselor for couples experiencing difficulties. I have been a counselor for over 30 years in private practice and hospital settings. For deeper understanding and healing childhood experiences affecting adult life and relationships with self and others see the reader-friendly source http://www.amazon.com/Effective-Counseling-Skills-therapeutic-statements/dp/1442177993
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MA (University of Kentucky), MSW (Kent School of Social Work)
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You are right to be concerned. My suggestion is to use the following structure: 1. Have meeting in which you and you husband create a written numbered list of your issues. 2. Then each choose an
First of all, it is normal for you to feel jealous, so I advise that you accept your emotions. You feel jealous because you care for him and do not want to lose him. Second, I would say that boundaries
You are right to be suspicious. Look for more signs of cheating. I am away in Europe for several months and apologize that I will be unable to give a personal reply until June of this year. Until then
Have an agreement that he will not use porn. It is a desire he must manage and control. Have a talk about what kind of sex you want and need and get agreement. I am away in Europe for several months
Look for more signs of infidelity. You are right to be vigilant. I am away in Europe for several months and apologize that I will be unable to give a personal reply until June of this year. Until then
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