Sharman Castillo - Domestic Violence - Marriage - People/Relationships

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Expert Profile: Sharman Castillo

Expertise: I can answer questions on mental abuse and physical abuse. I can answer questions on sexual abuse for adult women. I can not answer questions on sexual abuse for children because I have never experienced that personally.

Experience in the area
I was in an abusive situation twice. Once for 1-year and 6 months. The other for 2-years and 3 months. I know the cycle of being abused by the abuser and then believeing he will change. Forgiving him or her and then starting over again, with the same abuse.

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Something controversial or provocative about this subject Some people say it is done out of Love because they are afraid the person will leave them. I believe it is done out of wanting to control the other person.

What do you like about this subject? I was abused by my step-father as a little girl. Then again by my ex-husband and ex-boyfriend. I use to ask God why me? Now I know mabe I went though all that I did so that I could help others who are now going through what I did. So if God can use me in this way then what I went through is ok.

What do you still hope to achieve/learn in this field? I hope I can help one person get out of a bad situation.

Something interesting about this subject that others may not know: Men are also abused. Many think they can not do any better than with the person who is abusing them. I want to let you know that you deserve better and there is help.

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Prestige Points: 3996
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Timeliness	9.92 Best of the best
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Number Of Questions (in Past 24 Hours)		0
Max Questions to be Asked (in 24 Hour period)		15
Total Questions (since joining AllExperts)		114

Recent Reviews from Users

Knowl	Clarity	Time	Politeness	Date
10	10	10	10	10/06/08
10	10	10	10	09/06/08
10	10	10	10	09/05/08
10	10	10	10	08/11/08
10	10	10	10	06/16/08

User Comments

Thank you for your reply, I have a lot of thinking to do at this moment, I will update soon.
(Araceli on 10/06/08)

A fair and encouraging person.
(nancy on 09/06/08)

Response was prompt--no judgements on my situation from this expert, which is really really hard to do in my situation. It is a situation that even a
(nancy on 09/05/08)

Thanks Sharman, I really appreciate your email. I will take your advice. God bless. Ashley
(Ashley on 08/11/08)

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Recent Answers from Sharman Castillo

2008-10-10 Emotional abuse: Dear Rebecca, I am still so sorry for you but I am happy that you really are strong I just don't think you give yourself the credit you deserve. I would probably go when he wasn't there and...

2008-10-09 can we recover?: Dear Tammy, When a person is on drugs they do loose their minds, to me it opens a door for demons to come in, I know it sounds crazy but you yourself said he was very evil and possibly would...

2008-10-02 Emotional abuse: Dear Rebecca, Sweety your husband is only doing what all abusers do. They torment us and then make it seem like it was our fault all along. They do not change because they are incapable of changing...

2008-09-30 Am i doing the right thing ?: Dear Sara, So sorry it has taken me so long to get back to you. I felt sad when reading your letter and fully understand how you feel. 9 years is a long time to be abused and then he stops...

2008-09-29 I feel stuck in a 2x2 square without an exit!- HELP: Dear Araceli, I am very sorry that is has taken me so long to get back to you, I work long and just was unable to get to you and I hope it is not to late. I was very sad when I read your letter...