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| Date | User | Subject | K | C | P | N | Comments |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 2012-11-04 | Sara | Developing relationships: Titles, Labels | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Thank you for your support. The validation really helps, and I appreciate it. Sara |
| 2012-06-05 | Gale | reunification with birth mother | 9 | 10 | 10 | No | Alice was very kind and thoughtful in answering my questions. She seemed to really try and think thing through. It was VERY much appreciated and gave me insight on a complex issue. |
| 2012-05-07 | Lindsey | Searching, Closed Adoption | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | I really appreciate your help. There's some great information there, and I won't hesitate to ask again if I need more advice. |
| 2012-02-29 | dawn | Sister will not share | 10 | 10 | 10 | No | Thank you for your detailed and thoughtful reply. I am most grateful. DAWN |
| 2011-08-26 | George | A problem with my | 10 | 10 | 10 | No | Thank you. |
| 2011-02-10 | Josette | My son's missing history | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Thank You for trying to help me,it was ever greatly appreciated. |
| 2010-10-21 | Sara | Should I contact my | 8 | 10 | 10 | Yes | |
| 2010-07-30 | babak | My Identity - International | 10 | 10 | 10 | No | |
| 2010-05-14 | tineill | He has an online | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | she was very helpful and i loved the way she was so caring and concerned with my situation |
| 2010-05-08 | Sonia | Finding real birth parents | 10 | 9 | 9 | No | Thank you for your help :/ |
| 2010-05-04 | Alicia | orig birth certificate | 10 | 10 | 10 | No | Thank you so much Reverend Allen. I am grateful for all the info you provided. |
| 2010-02-28 | jan | adoption never finalized | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Thank you very much for your timely response and your offer to help. |
| 2009-11-23 | Ron | Access to original birth | 10 | 10 | 10 | No | Rev Allen, Your timely note is much appreciated. I'll keep plugging away at this. I know that his father even saw me when I was a baby--but my father apparently did not know it at the time. My father was 20 when, in joining the Navy, the government informed him that his father (his adoptive father who probably had not adopted him yet) was not his biological father. It was a bit of a shock to him. I'm pretty sure of the identity of his father--just not absolutely sure. I have identified the parents of his father--and one of the grandparents. And I'm a genealogist, so I'll have little difficulty pursuing the research in Sicilian records. Just wish I knew for sure! Many thanks again, Ron Krupovich |
| 2009-10-13 | melissa | should o meet my | 10 | 10 | 10 | No | Thank you for taking time to answer my questions and giving more incite |
| 2009-08-23 | Katheri | finding literature about adoption | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | |
| 2009-06-29 | olivia | helpme find my birth | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | I wanted to say thank you so much for the feedback and quick response it really make me feel hopeful that i know i am not alone in this type of situation |
| 2009-06-14 | Anthony | Adoption Papers | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Thank you for the encouragment and how fast you got back to me. Thank YOu so much! |
| 2009-05-08 | Angela | Birth Father Ignoring Contact | 10 | 10 | 10 | No | Thank you for the encouragement... as fate would have it, my birth father contacted me via telephone today! I appreciate your response. Thank you. |
| 2009-04-27 | Jade | Adopted Child has no | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Thank you for the great answer! |
| 2009-03-25 | Gina | Search for Birth Family | 10 | 10 | 10 | No | Thank you!!! That sounds great! :) Thanks for your help! |
| 2009-03-24 | Gina | Search for Birth Family | 10 | 10 | 10 | No | Thank you so very much for your answer! I will pursue those websites!! |
| 2009-02-14 | Carrie | Reuniting with Adoptee | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | |
| 2009-01-29 | Christi | Reestablish severed parental rights | 10 | 10 | 10 | No | Thanks so much for your quick reply! |
| 2009-01-10 | Tom | Finding heritage | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | This is the most thorough response one could expect. |
| 2008-05-27 | dave | adoption | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | thanks you have been most helpfull |
| 2008-01-07 | Michael | Adopted Brother | 10 | 9 | 10 | Yes | Thanks a million |
| 2007-08-12 | Sarah | confused | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Very Helpful! Thankyou, and i think i would like to talk more with you. I dont think i am going to even tell me adoptive mother about these conversations so i dont think it is a good idea for her to talk to you, if thats okay. |
| 2007-07-27 | caitlin | Adopted | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Thank you so much for your reply! Sorry i did not rate you at first, i was actually unaware of the fact that you could actually do that. Your answer to my difficult question was very helpful and it really seemed like you knew what you were talking about. I would definetly recomend you to others! |
| 2007-07-15 | Marilyn | First Contact w/Birth Father | 10 | 10 | 10 | No | |
| 2007-07-01 | Dawne | Getting to know biological | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | IF I COULD RATE ALICE HIGHER THANA 10 I MOST DEFINATELY WOULD!!!SHE HAS VERY EXTREMELY FAST AND EFFICIENT. SHE HAS GIVEN ME GOOD ADVICE AND RESOURCES TO GO TO THANKS SO VERY VERY MUCH |
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Adoption Reunion and Reconciliation - "Do I matter to you?" - To adopted persons and their families, it is an especially important question. I offer search and support guidance, information about typical/atypical consequences of reunion, and counseling to all involved parties. Please 'View Profile' for more detail.
I am an Universalist minister and counselor specializing in search, reunion, and reconciliation issues. I am founder of GrannysCupboard, an ULC ministry. As a function of our ministry, GrannysCupboard assists individuals searching for missing or estranged family and community members. Confidential information provided to GrannysCupboard is not shared without explicit permission. All costs associated with search service are paid by GrannysCupboard.
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