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N = Nominated for Expert of the Month
| Date | User | K | C | T | P | N | Comments |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 2009-09-01 | rhonda | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Thank you. Very quick response. I appreciate your time and knowledge. |
| 2009-08-23 | Sophie | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | |
| 2009-08-09 | Diane | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | No | Thank you for your response...It makes me feel I am not the "crazy one" who doesn't trust people. |
| 2009-07-30 | Katie | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | No | Thank you for your help! |
| 2009-07-14 | Kathy | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Thank you for your prompt and informative response. I often use Allender's book, so feel that your response has confirmed my direction in this case. I will be mindful of the shame piece, and the emphasis on didactic. Thanks again. |
| 2009-07-09 | Dayle | 7 | 7 | 10 | 10 | Yes | I thank Lucille for her response. Only problem is it didn't really explain what I can do other than just leave him alone. |
| 2009-06-21 | Joseph | 9 | 10 | 10 | 9 | Yes | |
| 2009-06-19 | arpit | 10 | 10 | 8 | 10 | Yes | she is great but it took some time to get respnse |
| 2009-06-11 | Ashely | 10 | 5 | 10 | 10 | No | |
| 2009-05-28 | Amanda | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | thank you i found your advice very useful and will take the next step to getting counciling |
| 2009-05-17 | Peggy | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Great resource suggestions! I have read 2 of them about 20 yrs. ago. Both the definition of child sexual abuse & trouble in the following areas will help when or if the need arises to share this with other children or victims in ministry outreach in Mexico, where I currently serve. |
| 2009-05-04 | daniel | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | No | Thank you so much ma'am. Ive never ever in my whole life looked at it as if i was a victim. It brings a lot more questions and thoughts to my mind; though, i feel closer to recovery however far away it is. |
| 2009-02-23 | Daniel | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Thanks alot. I will look for the book and hope it can help me. again, thanks alot |
| 2009-02-14 | pain18 | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Thank you I think I will do not I did not think of that so thank you. |
| 2009-02-12 | Drew | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Your selflessness, caring and empathy is more than appreciated. Having even a little direction gives me and my wife an opportunity at a fuller life. In my opinion, if my wife and I don't live a full, healhier life, then she was more than just physically raped, but robbed of a better life, too. With gratitude, and appreciation... thank you. |
| 2009-01-26 | Spyder | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Thanks. That's exactly what I needed. (In the screenplay, it's established quite clearly that they already have a rapport prior to the rape.) |
| 2009-01-06 | Jesse | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | |
| 2009-01-03 | Sharon | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | |
| 2008-12-24 | Catherine | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Thank you for a clear and straight answer to a wrenching problem. |
| 2008-12-12 | Baile | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Thank you so much for taking the time to answer my question. |
| 2008-12-11 | Kristina | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | thank you. Yes my parents knew about the rape. They acted as if they don't care. |
| 2008-12-07 | Juan | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Thank you for your advice, your timeliness and your comprehension. I will try and support her as best I can as a friend, I'll also ask around for counselors and present her whatever options I find. |
| 2008-12-05 | Kendra | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | thanx ab lot |
| 2008-11-10 | Vicki | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | No | |
| 2008-11-05 | AngieSue | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | No | Thank you. It helps to know that I'm not crazy in how hard this is to deal with. Appreciate your time. Yes, it is intensely difficult to live through this process. Thank you for your encouragement to hold on. |
| 2008-11-03 | Lizz | 10 | 9 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Thank you. I found your advice very helpful. And I WILL follow it. Thank you for confirming that I'm NOT crazy for feeling this way. |
| 2008-10-20 | alan | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | thank you so much |
| 2008-10-09 | Kelsey | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Thanks so much. |
| 2008-10-04 | Emily | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | No | Thank you again for your reply. I will see if my school has free counseling. I am in Canada now, but it happened in the United States. |
| 2008-10-02 | Johana | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Thank you very much, your answer helped me a lot! |
I can answer questions related to childhood sexual abuse, specifically the ways it negatively impacts a person emotionally.
For two years I have led a weekly support group for adult survivors of childhood sexual abuse.
Organizations
American Association of Christian Counseling, American Psychological Association, EMDRIA
Publications
Several newspaper articles. I am now working on a book with an agent.
Education/Credentials
Master of Arts in Counseling
Awards and Honors
Maintained a 3.95 GPA in graduate school
Past/Present Clients
I have worked with clients who have Dissociative Identity Disorder (previously called multiple personality disorder) due to post-traumatic stress surrounding childhood sexual abuse. I have spent lots of time with this type of clientele

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