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Column Headings: K = Knowledgeability C = Clarity of Response T = Timeliness P = Politeness
N = Nominated for Expert of the Month
| Date | User | K | C | T | P | N | Comments |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 2009-10-20 | Jessica | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | |
| 2009-10-08 | Randy | 10 | 6 | 10 | 10 | No | Thank you for your input, however I stated that my child is from a previous marriage, and my wife was trashing me to my family and freinds, to make her look like the victim and me the bad guy. |
| 2009-09-07 | Anonymous | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | No | Thanks |
| 2009-08-27 | Aneisha | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Thank you so much for your comments and compassion. Today was a very tough day dealing with him again on the phone and the constant hurtful dialogue. This reply was so timely. Thank you again! |
| 2009-08-21 | vanessa | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Thanks for your honest response. I think I always knew the answer to my question but I needed to hear it from someone else. I agree, I shall now pick up the pieces and move forward with my life Thanks again |
| 2009-05-27 | Jessica | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | No | thank you i will keep this in mind thank you |
| 2009-05-24 | Derek | 9 | 9 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Thank you, glad to here I am not the only one who thinks this wasnt normal |
| 2009-05-24 | Maya | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | No | That's the truth. Thanx. |
| 2009-04-10 | Raven | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | |
| 2009-03-06 | Jen | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | No | Terse but supportive. Thanks! |
| 2009-01-27 | fatimah | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | thank you so much. God bless you(amen) |
| 2008-11-19 | P. | 10 | 10 | 8 | 10 | No | Thank you for your honest input! |
| 2008-11-01 | joe | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | THANK YOU, I THINK I AM GOING TO TAKE A HARD LOOK AND DECIDE WITH A CLEAR MIND WHAT TO DO.THANK YOU FOR BEING PROMT AND CLEAR. JOE |
| 2008-10-21 | Maja | 9 | 10 | 9 | 10 | Yes | I would like to offer my sincerest gratitude and compliment you on your blunt advice and practical solutions, it is very refreshing and helpful. Thanks again......M.S |
| 2008-10-18 | Ash | 9 | 8 | 10 | 9 | No | |
| 2008-10-07 | erin | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | No | thank you so much |
| 2008-10-06 | Erica | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Thank you for your advice. I guess I kinda knew all along that I need to get out. I just needed someone to cosign. Thanks again Erica |
| 2008-09-22 | amy | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | No | Thank you for your input... |
| 2008-09-22 | gina | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Thank you so much for your kind words and support. your empathy means a LOT. i find your words extremely EMPOWERING. THANK YOU for seeing the situation the way i do and understanding how I truly feel and informing me about my rights. it means so much. thanks are not enough to express my thanks. |
| 2008-09-21 | S | 9 | 9 | 10 | 9 | No | Thank you for your response. Time is helping to heal some of the wounds. And I hope I learn more about myself in the prcess too. |
| 2008-09-21 | Alicia | 10 | 9 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Thanks for your help. |
| 2008-09-19 | Jacqui | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | You are the one expert I've written who has first hand experience. Thank you for taking the time to write a full response instead of two sentences on how stupid I am. I really appreciate it. |
| 2008-09-13 | Bea | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | No | Very Impressed...good insight. Thank you. |
| 2008-09-11 | Gena | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | No | |
| 2008-08-30 | Ann | 8 | 8 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Thnak you very much |
| 2008-08-15 | Kris | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | No | Thanks for the reply, I had asked this question of every Expert on the panel, and you are the only one who replied, the rest said this is out of their level of expertise, or simply to find a counselor to talk to. I appreciate it, and agree, it hurts that my kids don't feel safe or happy at home, yet are worried about me, so they call me all weekend asking if I am ok. I need to leave! |
| 2008-07-08 | Maria Rivera | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | No | Thank you for your answer and even though it's hard, I know that staying away from him is the best thing for me to do, but for me it's really hard. |
| 2008-06-24 | Michelle | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Thank you so much! |
| 2008-06-11 | Emily | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | I had no one else to talk to. thank you so much for telling me straight. |
| 2008-05-30 | maria | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | No | she was very nice and informative. I will take your advice |
Answers by Expert:
Nafeesah
Expertise
I can answer just about anything on abusive relationships, but I can't give legal advice on how to get out of one that's something you need to speak with a counselor trained and certified to deal with domestic violence issues to get resources in pursuing legal recourse.
Experience
I have been in abusive relationships and I have shared my experience in helping others to get out of these types of relationships. I was in two abusive relationships one lasting nearly 2 years and the other just over 5 years.
Education/Credentials
Associates degree, bachelors degree, and I am a certified nursing assistant
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