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Column Headings: K = Knowledgeability C = Clarity of Response T = Timeliness P = Politeness
N = Nominated for Expert of the Month
| Date | User | K | C | T | P | N | Comments |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 2009-11-19 | Aennil | 7 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Thank you. Very honest. |
| 2009-11-18 | Bill | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Thanks again Azure. I really appreciate your advice. You're exactly right. I feel like I jumped into this head first with lots of confidence. I can't necessarily expect that from her given her past history. Appeal to the emotional on a more subliminal and gradually.....Love it! This is spot on. I came to the same conclusion now that I've more or less surrendered to the situation. I think my response has lifted the pressure of her back. |
| 2009-11-06 | Bill | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Thank you for your balanced opinions and constructive ideas. I appreciate your input very much. You are a wonderful person for dedicating your time to help so many people! Many Blessings to you (: |
| 2009-11-04 | Bob | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | thank you for your help. you gave ne some things to think about |
| 2009-10-24 | Funanya | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | well put answer. Thank you |
| 2009-10-13 | Stephanie | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | No | Thanks for the quick response!! I already knew the answer I just needed someone to basically slap me across the face and shake me and say "WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU!!" Not that friends havent tried, they have just been too nice about it :) This relationship will forever change me . . . hopefully for the good. I probably do need counseling, I should go and find some right now for more aspects of life then this!! Life shouldnt be this hard! thanks again, Steph |
| 2009-10-01 | Rafael | 7 | 8 | 10 | 9 | Yes | |
| 2009-09-30 | Fiona | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | No | |
| 2009-09-26 | Robert | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | |
| 2009-09-22 | Emma | 10 | 10 | 10 | 8 | Yes | |
| 2009-09-21 | Jo | 9 | 8 | 9 | 8 | No | Thanks. I guess I needed to hear it. |
| 2009-09-15 | Tracy | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | No | Dear Azure, Thank you so much for your help. Now i understand. Wish you all the best, |
| 2009-09-06 | Colby | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | |
| 2009-09-05 | p-gee | 9 | 5 | 10 | 7 | No | |
| 2009-08-28 | AB | 9 | 9 | 10 | 8 | No | Thanks, Your advice is in alignment with what we just both talked about and agreed upon. He was supposed to give me a wake up call, and supposedly forgot about it. So I messaged him. When he called,I admitted that I was upset and angry, and that I wasn't happy about this pattern occurring in our communication. I let him know I felt like I wasn't enough of a priority because he tends to put off calls or conveniently forget or whatever the excuse is. He explained to me that he felt like he was under speculation, because according to him, I would bring it to his attention every time he said he would call and didn't. We had a discussion and he wanted to fix it and stated that I am enough of a priority to make things happen and said he would make an “enormous, sincere” effort to stay in touch more but I would have to trust him and lower my expectations. We ended on a good note Thanks for your advice. You're right- I need to lower my expectations, I should focus on my self and my goals and I have every intention of doing ..... |
| 2009-08-13 | Michael | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | No | Thanks. |
| 2009-06-10 | Sara | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Great advice, very knowledgeable. |
| 2009-06-01 | Marianna | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | |
| 2009-05-31 | Ryan | 9 | 9 | 10 | 9 | No | Thank you for your opinion, Azure. I appreciate the realistic opinions that you give. I will take them to heart. We'll see what happens! |
| 2009-05-25 | Brandy | 8 | 10 | 10 | 6 | No | |
| 2009-05-20 | Alisan | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Response was very prompt, very concise, right on the money. Thank you. |
| 2009-05-04 | chris | 9 | 10 | 10 | 9 | Yes | answered the question within hours. good advice as well |
| 2009-05-02 | Anne | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Yeah, I definitely plan on talking to him about it the next time he is home...and even though I didn't really want to hear it, I think you're right about it losing it's spark. And it might just be who he is...I definitely have some thinking to do...Thanks for the advice! |
| 2009-04-21 | Jasmine | 10 | 9 | 10 | 8 | Yes | thanks for the advice! |
| 2009-04-20 | Heartbroken | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Thanks |
| 2009-04-14 | Lisa Marie | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | No | You are right. I just don't want you to be. |
| 2009-02-20 | Edwina | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | No | |
| 2009-02-20 | Edwina | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | No | |
| 2009-02-06 | mona | 9 | 10 | 10 | 9 | No | |
| 2009-02-05 | nawwar | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | No | thanks for everything:) |
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expertise: over 3000 questions answered...B.A. Psychology Bates College;graduate study, Fordham Univ. School Social Work; technical editor, "dating for dummies", by dr joy browne; thoughtful consideration of your question, then insightful advice about love,romance and related issues given in an objective, non-judgmental manner...over 20 years of personal experience in both short and long term relationships...longer term consultations are available uponrequest...life experience: personal involvement in many relationships where issues of love, sex, intimacy, trust, etc., had to be dealt with and resolved...just having "experiences", however, isn`t enough...it`s the thoughtful reflection upon and analysis of what happened and why, that leads to learning and enlightenment...so tell me what`s on your mind and i`ll try to help, or tell you if i can`t...thanks
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