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| Date | User | K | C | T | P | N | Comments |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 2009-05-21 | Jo | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Thank you so much for your help. You answered everything and I so appreciate it. |
| 2009-05-04 | Donna | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | No | Thank you so much for your help on this. This is exactly as I thought. |
| 2009-04-06 | Yazeed | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | No | |
| 2009-02-10 | Dale | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Very clear and concise reply to a difficult question. Your guidance and advice are greatly appreciated. I thank You very much. |
| 2008-12-21 | Yaz | 10 | 10 | 7 | 10 | No | |
| 2008-03-27 | Charlie | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Thanks a lot, Mike. You were very kind and informative. |
| 2008-03-08 | Bob | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | I appreciate your honesty mike. Although judging from your response, I think I may have painted the wrong picture. I don't want to trick women into sleeping with me, I love having conversations, as long as I am interested in the people I'm talking to . I just panic after I've been talking to a girl i don't know for like 20-30 sec. and make some excuse to leave the conversation because I feel she's just talking to me as long as she was out of courtesy. I just want to be more confident, decisive, assertive, and be comfortable in my own skin so I can convey my personality without the chains of my self deprication to hold me back. If you could maybe give me some examples of exactly how to word those affirmations regarding how to increase my self worth I would greatly appreciate it. Just to clarify the alpha male complex is just basically how to be a secure guy. Things like be relaxed, try not to walk too fast unless your late for something Try not to talk too fast because it conveys nervousness and insecurity, and to not take yourself too seriously. It also says to ..... |
| 2008-03-07 | Sharon | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | EXTREMELY constructive helpful advice. Seems truly interested in helping a person and not just answering a question. Kudos!!! |
| 2007-12-15 | Nancy Medford | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | No | Thanks so much for your help. It is not that I am personally going through something- I am trying to understand someone else's work and have doubts so I thought maybe I was misunderstanding the point. But you helped to clarify enough for me to see that i understood it, I just didn't agree with it! Thanks, Nancy Medford |
| 2007-11-20 | claudia | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Wow this is probably the best answer I have ever received, I think you read me perfectly. Thanks! |
| 2007-10-02 | Yazeed | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | No | |
| 2007-08-06 | sumathi sudheer | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | No | thank you |
| 2007-08-02 | Yazeed | 10 | 8 | 8 | 10 | No | |
| 2007-06-19 | Terra | 8 | 9 | 7 | 9 | No | |
| 2007-06-01 | Sharon | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | No | Thanks so much for the response and good suggestions--it's rare to receive constructive advice online and you certainly came through! Thanks! |
| 2007-04-30 | Abie | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | No | Hi Mike Thank you so much for your help with my question. Yup, I know all these things. It's just a mental block that I have to get over. One step at a time. Kind regards Abie |
| 2007-04-28 | samantha | 10 | 9 | 10 | 10 | No | |
| 2007-04-25 | Verity | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Thankyou so much for your advice, very clear and comprehensive and no waffle. it has given me confidence to complain to the appropriate body about the practitioner mentioned. Best wishes to you. |
| 2007-04-09 | Yazeed | 10 | 10 | 5 | 10 | No | |
| 2007-03-20 | Maggie | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Thank you so much Mr. De Bruyn. I am going to apply all of the suggestions you gave me, and be successful this Friday. I've had a list of reasons why I want to quit, as well as a picture of my daughter, and a small mirror taped to my computer area for a week now, (the mirror I know sounds strange, but I have been very lucky, and at 40 can easily pass for 25, something which I'm sure won't last much longer if I continue to smoke.) Thank you so much, Maggie |
| 2007-03-17 | leah | 10 | 10 | 6 | 10 | No | Thanks! |
| 2007-03-14 | LORETTA | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | No | Thanks so much for your reply! I have trouble remembering things as far as what did I wear yesterday, what happened yesterday or the day before. After a while it may come to me. I know that in the past when something bad happens to me I tend to block it out in order to deal with the pain. Also when I was 19 I was in a car accident and my family said I lost my memory for awhile. I don't know if these two things has something to do with it or not. Before it's never been a problem until now. |
| 2007-02-06 | yazeed | 8 | 8 | 7 | 8 | No | |
| 2006-12-28 | tom | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | No | |
| 2006-08-25 | Cesar | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | No | Thank you for your valuable information. I will follow your advise. Cesar |
| 2006-07-30 | Fred | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | No | Thanks Mike for a prompt response and guidance, I'll keep in touch and let you know how things turn out - good to hear that I am on the right track! |
| 2005-12-20 | paul smith | 10 | 8 | 10 | 10 | No | |
| 2005-09-01 | barb | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | WOW, Mike, what a great explanation! I really appreciate your taking the time to explain all that! I will call my favorite used bookstore this weekend and see if he has either or both of those books. THANK YOU! |
| 2005-08-31 | Linda | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Good answer, quick... thanks |
| 2005-07-26 | Chris | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Thank you for all the information you sent, it gives me a basis from which to start my research! |
Answers by Expert:
I can answer questions on Hypnosis, Hypnotherapy, NLP, and general personal change work. (I have some experience in EFT and EMDR, but not as much as hypnosis.) I will not debate the subject, attempt to justify it, or argue which modality is better than another. Please ask serious and specific questions so that I can give a specific answer. The more information you provide the better answer I can give. NOTE: In light of recent trolls, I will reject any question which is argumentative. I intened to provide information only to people seeking help. Those who need to argue can go elsewhere.
I trained in stage hypnosis and have worked in the field since 1968. I use traditional hypnosis, Ericksonian hypnosis and NLP in my work with private clients. I teach classes in Hypnosis and NLP and moderate the highly popular Hypnosis-Hypnotherapy group on Yahoo.

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