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N = Nominated for Expert of the Month
| Date | User | K | C | T | P | N | Comments |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 2009-10-09 | Whit | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Thank you. That helps alot. I will talk to my husband and see if that's something he wants to look more into with me. |
| 2009-09-22 | Don | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Thank you for taking the time to answer my question. Your answer was quick and straight forward. Apparently a similar question has been asked before -- is there a location where I can read similar answers to the same question? Thank you again -- I really appreciate your answering my question. Have a great day!!! Don |
| 2009-09-18 | Kels | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Thank you. I very much appreciate your response. |
| 2009-09-18 | Gus | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | No | Thank you for your rapid answer, it is sad that you dont know each others :s but well might as well live with it ;) thanks, have a great day |
| 2009-09-05 | John | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | |
| 2009-08-06 | JH | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | No | Thanks a lot. That makes sense. I just felt some responsibility to fix things with the other friends. I will drop that part and work on me and my bf. Hopefully things will turn out alright. thanks again! |
| 2009-08-04 | pinay american | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | thanks oh so much. my wife thanks you even more than I do. |
| 2009-07-28 | Lee | 10 | 10 | 9 | 10 | No | Thank you, that's definately what I need to get things started. |
| 2009-07-25 | youngguy | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | No | |
| 2009-07-09 | Dominick | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | |
| 2009-07-02 | sameera | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | No | |
| 2009-06-25 | justin | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Thank you very much. It is nice to get some insight from an outsider. While I cannot expect you to know everything about the situation--even with all the info I have given you--it is helpful to get the perspective from someone who isnt stuck in a fog of emotions with it. I agree that I place the burden upon myself, but your saying this validate that. I am still uncertain exactly where this will go. It could be a cry for attention, perhaps she wants me to get upset because it shows her I still care, but regardless the reasons...I have to worry about myself. Thank you for your time and clarity of thought. |
| 2009-06-11 | niki | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | No | |
| 2009-06-09 | nicki | 10 | 9 | 10 | 10 | No | |
| 2009-05-30 | Geoff | 9 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | |
| 2009-05-18 | Jo | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Thankyou Analise, I think the answer which ive recieved was excellent!! your a top chick x and yes i am a woman and yes i will try to chill out.. will let you know how it goes, Many Thanks your a star |
| 2009-05-17 | Josh | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | No | yea, i might prefer another response from her but I am fine if never enter the lifestyle. It's not like I have to be in it, would just enjoy it. |
| 2009-05-13 | LJ | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Thank you very much for your answer, it does help us in determining how we introduce ourselves into the swinging environment. |
| 2009-05-10 | Rick | 8 | 8 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Analisa, Thank you for your advice. I am a very understanding husband and am sensitive to my wife's attitudes and self esteem. I didnt mean to imply that i would or have ever judged her. I dont, however she judges herself far more harshly than i could ever. I question was more about her confidance and how i could help her find the courage to do what she expresses is such a thrill and passion for her. Thank you for your advise. |
| 2009-05-04 | roger sharp | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | |
| 2009-04-28 | Murray | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Thanks Analisa, that's kind of what we had planned. We were going to have an 'after-work' date at the bar then head home for a few more drinks then gauge each other's response/level of interest. Thanks again! Murray |
| 2009-04-24 | Janelle | 10 | 8 | 10 | 9 | No | |
| 2009-03-08 | Chip | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | No | Thanks for your quick reply. It helps me to stay motivated and focused on my idea that I think has great potential and value. |
| 2009-02-24 | Tom | 9 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Thanks for the professional response |
| 2009-02-24 | ted | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | No | Thank you very much! |
| 2009-02-20 | Rick Foxxx | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | No | |
| 2008-12-22 | Keith | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | No | Thanks for the timely reply, it really helped me. |
| 2008-08-16 | Thomas | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Thank you!!! |
| 2008-08-15 | Thomas | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Thank you for the answer I will continue to ask as thoughts pop into my head! And once again Thank You! |
| 2008-08-15 | Franka | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes |
Questions related to Swinging i.e. Why did you choose to become a swinger, He/She wants to but I have doubts, How to begin/get started, What is the purpose of swinging, Why would you become a swinger, Should we/shouldn't we, Rules (Are/Aren't they needed, What should they be, What should be non-negotiable, What can be compromised, What to do if rules are ignored or broken), House vs. private parties, Resources to locate other swingers, What does it mean to take one for the team Questions we can't answer: Any alternative sexual questions other than swinging, i.e. Bestiality, Gang Banging, anything to do with minors, B/D or S&M, toilet games, etc. We also don't feel proficient in answering in depth relationship questions, we are not marriage/relationship counselors, if we receive a question that falls into that category we will refer you to seek professional help.
Over 10 years in the Lifestyle, numerous events & encounters (some pleasant & enjoyable and others that were less than)
Organizations
NASCA, Good Vibrations, C4P
Education/Credentials
Both of us are college educated professionals.

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