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All Reviews from Users
Column Headings: K = Knowledgeability C = Clarity of Response T = Timeliness P = Politeness
N = Nominated for Expert of the Month
| Date | User | K | C | T | P | N | Comments |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 2009-10-27 | Brad | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | No | Thanks so much for your help, Miss Violette. You have given definition to a lot of the things I've been thinking about, and made things a lot clearer. Best wishes, Brad. |
| 2009-10-26 | annabel | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | A truely expectional response that fully answered my question. |
| 2009-10-17 | Annie | 9 | 10 | 10 | 10 | No | Thank you very much for your timely and thoughtful response. I wanted to let your answer percolate in my head and read it a few times before I posted a comment to you. We are working through some ideas that we had on our own and combining with some ideas that you brought up, especially in terms of timing. When we can not be together in person we may focus on other methods of power exchange that don't have the residual effects of me feeling so out of control and adrift. We also came up with a plan or set of ideas after a scene designed to resume my ability to function more quickly. Questions that start very easy and then becoming more difficult. Then some problem solving questions designed to make my mind refocus. We haven't put it to the test yet, but may in the near future. Thank you again for your reply. |
| 2009-10-02 | sky | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | thank you so much. |
| 2009-10-02 | cherishedpet | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Thank You so much, Mistress Violette. Your answer was exactly what i needed to hear, and has given me much to think about. |
| 2009-09-27 | Kali | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | All I can say is thank you for all your help/advice. |
| 2009-09-24 | Megan | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | very nice:) |
| 2009-09-24 | Janneke | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Thank you very much for your response. I think it will help :) |
| 2009-09-19 | Mitchell | 7 | 10 | 10 | 9 | No | |
| 2009-09-10 | Stoney | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Your answer has helped me greatly! Thank you so much for your advice :-) |
| 2009-09-08 | James | 9 | 9 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Swift and helpful responce. Will seek advice again if required. :) |
| 2009-09-05 | Lily | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | No | Thank You very much for the reply. You have cleared things up for me and given me some peace of mind at the same time, so i know where to go from here. :) Warm regards, Lily |
| 2009-09-02 | Mark | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Thanks a lot Violette. |
| 2009-08-13 | Nanci | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Wow, Mistress Violette, thank you so much for such a wonderful, heart-felt response. This was my first D/s relationship, so I was repeatedly told that a sub could not be so strong willed and there lies the low self esteem. Your response clarifies for me that one size does not fit all D/s relationships, and that I am fine after all. And you are absolutely correct in stating that my Daddy should have taken responsibility and making sure I was OK till the end. I never saw it that way till now. Thank you for your time and help. |
| 2009-08-07 | Alex | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | No | Thanks, I definitely need to find a way to talk to him about this. |
| 2009-07-24 | Natashas | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | No | Thank you so much for getting back to me so quickly and for your answer! I've already contacted local groups that I hadn't even been aware existed. I'm going to an orientation meeting tomorrow afternoon, and am a little nervous and very excited. I'm going to move on from the situation I've been in, and start doing something much healthier. I can't tell you how much I appreciate the clarity you gave me. It's so much harder to see through things like that for yourself...and it's not something I could discuss with my vanilla friends. |
| 2009-07-15 | gina | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Thank you so much... I will go get all those books today. |
| 2009-07-07 | Jason | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Well Ok then thank you, this really helps with integrating myself, there was always a world out there and I didn't even know it, and this helps with me exploring it. |
| 2009-07-05 | Kristina | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | No | Thank you very much your answer has helped a great deal. |
| 2009-07-02 | Stacy | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | |
| 2009-06-17 | Mr. Brown | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | The information was great and I appreciated the insight and the matter in which it was delievered. I will use Mistress Violette in the future if I have any other questions...Thank you again. |
| 2009-06-05 | Sylvia | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | No | Thank you very much! I hadn't really thought about the terminology too much :) |
| 2009-05-12 | Valentine | 10 | 10 | 9 | 10 | Yes | Thank you very much Mistress Violette, you have really helped me work things out. It's really nice to have advice from somebody who understands this way of life. Couldn't have asked for a better response. |
| 2009-05-04 | Brison | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | No | ok |
| 2009-04-25 | Gilbert | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Mistress Violette is a queen, and all men have to kneel under her feet. |
| 2009-04-19 | Shirley | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | No | Thank You Mistress Violette, this has been most helpful. Though i stayed with this Dom and hopefully have worked things out, it will take time to rebuild trust so there a two month period to see if a pattern developes and if so, i will definately leave. Many thanks, Shirl |
| 2009-04-15 | Gabriela | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Thank u so much, i feel so much better... |
| 2009-04-13 | Chris | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Thank you so much for your reply to Chris - your education, etiquette, and care are deeply appreciated. I believe it did help him. He seems much more centered today, and it feels like some issues can be worked through. (From the LD girlfriend) |
| 2009-04-09 | Tabitha | 9 | 9 | 10 | 10 | Yes | |
| 2009-04-02 | Eric | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Thank you very much for your time. It helped allot. |
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Answers by Expert:
Mistress Violette
Expertise
I can answer questions related to the practice of BDSM, especially involving relationship issues and personal interactions. My expertise is in helping people sort out thoughts and feelings, define problems and find solutions. I'm happy to apply my BDSM knowledge and experience to this. I'm not the best person for questions dealing with mechanical contraptions, the physics of BDSM or Gor related matters.
Experience
Seventeen years of real time, face to face practice of BDSM in my own personal relationships, 4 years of professional experience in distance training.
Education/Credentials
My traditional education includes both a bachelor's and master's degree. I have no formal education in BDSM. I know what I know from interacting with experienced players, reading, and hands on experience.
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