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K = Knowledgeability C = Clarity of Response T = Timeliness P = Politeness
N = Nominated for Expert of the Month
| Date | User | K | C | T | P | N | Comments |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 2009-02-02 | Jana | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Thank you so much for responding to my problem. You've been a great help! |
| 2009-01-19 | Mary | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Thanks for the help...and not only because you agreed with me. LOL |
| 2008-12-31 | bruce | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Thanks XR, I do appreciate your time . I realize that you only have one side of a story and there are generally three! You kept me on task and I do appreciate your thoughts . I will take your advice as I am starting to realize that drama begets drama and I am one who doesn't need any more in my life Thank you again . sincerely. bruce |
| 2008-12-30 | Jennifer | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Thanks for the reassurance. |
| 2008-11-06 | Hailey | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Thank you so much for your answer, i felt like i was being selfish or over reacting but i have come to realize that i wasnt! i was being to nice and a push over almost. Im not sure what im gonna do but thank you so much for giving me advice and boosting my confidence in how i feel. |
| 2008-11-03 | cindy | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | No | I rate xr the highest rating possible. The answers were presice and to the point. I'm very pleased with the results. |
| 2008-10-20 | Sarah | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | I appreciate your sincerity and lack of character judgment! |
| 2008-09-29 | Cammy | 9 | 9 | 9 | 10 | Yes | Thank you for your advice. I guess there is no cure. But I will keep trying to stop. |
| 2008-08-20 | julian | 8 | 10 | 10 | 10 | No | thank you very much for these thoughts. I think I'll just have to sit her down and have along talk and hope for the best She is willing to try but is natually unsure she can do it. thank you J |
| 2008-08-15 | Curiosity | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Ironically, we're both vegetarians - but thanks so much for your help ! |
| 2008-07-31 | Nicola | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Thanks :) |
| 2008-07-29 | Charles | 8 | 8 | 10 | 10 | Yes | |
| 2008-06-20 | Anonymous | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | No | |
| 2008-06-18 | Andrew | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | |
| 2008-06-09 | Lindsey | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | AMAZING AND TIMELY!! COULD NOT ASK FOR BETTER RESPONSE. |
| 2008-05-29 | Eliza | 10 | 10 | 8 | 10 | Yes | |
| 2008-05-22 | David | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | No | Thanks XR, for the scissorlock fetish feedback and advice. Appreciate it. David. |
| 2008-04-30 | T. Vivky | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Thank you |
| 2008-04-09 | Ryan | 9 | 9 | 10 | 10 | Yes | |
| 2008-03-14 | James | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | No | Thank you. |
| 2008-03-10 | Debbie | 9 | 9 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Thank you for helping me. I had to laugh when you thought I was too obscure. It took me a moment to fully absorb what you had said. I didn't mean for it to sound exclusively sexual, though fetish does lead to that. Thank you so much for the quick response and laugh. |
| 2008-02-29 | Wick | 7 | 9 | 10 | 10 | No | |
| 2008-02-14 | charlene | 10 | 8 | 8 | 10 | Yes | Thanks for your help, much appreciated |
| 2008-02-14 | Alex | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | No | |
| 2008-02-13 | Alex | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Fantastic! |
| 2008-02-05 | Eliza | 10 | 10 | 8 | 10 | No | Thanks alot. V day touch was rather nice too! |
| 2008-01-22 | trease | 10 | 10 | 5 | 10 | Yes | |
| 2008-01-08 | J. | 10 | 10 | 8 | 10 | No | |
| 2007-11-21 | manik | 10 | 10 | 10 | 9 | Yes | thanks for your answer. i will try the sites you referred |
| 2007-11-20 | Billy | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Thank you the advice. We have exceltely communication in our relationship, so I think this is dead on advise! |
Answers by Expert:
If your fetish involves gear I can take it on. From electrosex to medical play I'll give you the best shot I can. I deal with some of the strangest things on an everyday basis and would be glad to help answer any question you might have, no matter how crazy or mundane. *New* If you're under 18, I'm no longer answering your questions. I understand that most people lose their virginities before they're 18, and that getting good advice, or even treated seriously as a sexual being can be problematic, but I'm not comfortable that the 12 year olds or such who are asking questions are always really 12 year olds and not strange old men or FBI agents. So, for any underage kids thinking of asking questions, here's my response up front: Use condoms (you aren't ready to have sex if you can't buy condoms), and don't do anything you're uncomfortable with.
I'm here as a representative of www.eXtremeRestraints.com. We're one of the biggest online BDSM and fetish gear retailers in the world. We carry just about everything you could possibly be into. We spent a lot of time finding quality kink gear to carry and make sure that it's all high quality and consistently satisfying, so we should know our stuff.
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