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K = Knowledgeability C = Clarity of Response T = Timeliness P = Politeness
N = Nominated for Expert of the Month
| Date | User | K | C | T | P | N | Comments |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 2009-11-20 | Deborah | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | I've been asking Blue, questions for the last two years. She has never steered me wrong. She is an intelligent, caring, loving woman. She knows her STUFF! She helped me to come to terms with myself, she gave me hope and inspiration. Blue, tells you how it is---no sugar coating. Thank-you always,Deborah |
| 2009-10-31 | Vanessa Brooke | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | No | Thank you very much |
| 2009-09-06 | Caroline | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | thanks m / Blue a very good answer |
| 2009-08-17 | Daniel | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Thank you, I will definitely look into the links, can't wait to test this!!! thx thx thx |
| 2009-07-31 | Sherry | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | No | Blue is the best. You can ask her anything and not be afraid and her advice is real and dependable. Gotta love Blue! |
| 2009-07-28 | Emily Jade | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Thanks you so much! Your answers have really helped |
| 2009-06-26 | Jan | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | No | TY! That's what I thought. You are a lifesaver! |
| 2009-06-15 | Janet | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Fantastic response... I didn't even think about gloves!!! Can hardly wait for the update on your site for non-latex "items". You're really great, Blue. Thanks! |
| 2009-06-14 | Deborah | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | You are right, I'm not trying. Thanks anyways...... As Always, Deborah |
| 2009-06-12 | Karen | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | I really appreciate being able to ask questions and getting honest, useful advice from Blue. She's open, supportive and great! |
| 2009-06-02 | Rose | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Blue, I appreciate your honesty and suggestions. I will definitely keep everything in mind and know this is going to help things between us a great deal. Thanks for putting my question in the right catagory - I was over anxious and didn't mean for it to be a private question at all. You're the best!!! ~ Rose |
| 2009-03-29 | Penny | 9 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | |
| 2009-03-12 | Arabia | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | |
| 2009-03-03 | jalyssa | 10 | 10 | 9 | 10 | No | thanks everything you told me I will put in great consideration. |
| 2009-02-25 | Carmen | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Again,thanks for the great response and patience! Blue expresses her answers with genuine feeling and care. I strongly recommend seeking her insights anytime! |
| 2009-02-24 | Carmen | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | I really appreciate the response and the honest reply given. It's good to get a personal account as opposed to a dictation or cut and paste from some other person's accounts. THANK YOU!!! |
| 2009-02-21 | apple | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Hi Blue Sleighty, Thnx for your kind been patience wit my question, i will treasure my girl mate friendships will never betray her or even flirt around wit other boys many thnx & regards. |
| 2009-02-07 | Deborah | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | I keep on coming back and I KEEP ON LEARNING from a woman who cares about you and knows her STUFF. Always, Deborah |
| 2009-01-28 | CGLLR | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Thank you. |
| 2009-01-26 | Mildred | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Best of them all............ |
| 2009-01-26 | Mildred | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Thank you for your clarity in response, you to understand me........ |
| 2008-11-18 | Corrina | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | This is probably the best one that I have talked to!=D |
| 2008-10-14 | Persistence | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | No | Blue, is a knowledged woman and has helped me to come to terms w/myself. If you need someone to talk to Blue is the ONE! I'm indebted to you, Blue!! Deborah |
| 2008-08-21 | Laura | 8 | 10 | 7 | 10 | No | Thanks for the help Blue. |
| 2008-08-17 | Nicole | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Thanks so much for your advice..... |
| 2008-07-26 | Starz | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | No | many thanks |
| 2008-07-26 | Gichuchu | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Hi Blue, Thank you for your very honest reply to our question. As long as the lesbian comes as couples, no one will ever interfere with visitors as long as they not interfering with locals and now we do have a town that is for lesbian and gays - Lamu. Thank you for your indformation |
| 2008-07-16 | Nina | 9 | 6 | 10 | 9 | Yes | Thank you Blue! We have'nt heard about that specification before, now we got a word for it then. Thanx |
| 2008-05-09 | Erin | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Thank you for all your help. You have been great! |
| 2008-05-03 | Brooke | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes |
BLUE SLEIGHTY HAS BEEN AN EXPERT FOR OVER 2 YEARS! I will do my best to answer any legitimate question. If I can NOT answer it- I will be happy to provide references to someone that I believe can help you.
I have been a lesbian all of my life, and realized that there was something different going on with me by the time I was 6 years old. I have faced the same issues and have made many of the same mistakes that other lesbians have. Part of my journey as a woman and a lesbian has included educating myself, and exploring my sexuality and my body. While marching down my path seeking a better understanding of myself and others, I have gathered information along the way from reading publications of the best sex experts of our time, like Susie Bright, Annie Sprinkle (who is a lesbian, now!), Xaviera Hollander (who is doing some great work on YouTube these days!), and many others.
I have been fortunate to benefit from the wisdom, experience and research of these brilliant and brave women.
I have had an active and adventurous sex life and I am a healthy and happy woman. I am published and a widely known writer of lesbian erotica.
Publications
CafeBoudoir.com, MySecretObsession.com, AuthorsDen.com, AuthorZone.com, many others. Author of 5 books which can be found at Amazon.com, and Lulu.com , as well as many other online book sellers.
Education/Credentials
Along with the privledge of having an oddly interesting and far from boring life which has afforded me a rather unique perspective, I have an AA from the Texas Academy of Art. I am a midwife and worked with a team of midwives at a birthing center where I performed well woman exams, managed prenatal care, and delivered babies as well as managing home births for 3 years, which gives me plenty of hands on experience with the female body. I have the equivalent of a MA in life experiences and personal independent study as measured by UH life credit testing, and I constantly read college psychology textbooks, Psychology/Psychiatry News in the AMAJ, Psychology Today, and other educational journals. I write professionally and am respected and loved in the genre of lesbian erotica. I'm 40.
Awards and Honors
Every time someone thanks me for helping them is an award and an honor for me. Also, I was just thanked by the author, 'the mysterious Jade', in the acknowledgements of her new, page turning lesbian erotic thriller, "Secretly Bound", for being her mentor and for inspiration, advice and friendship.

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