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All Reviews from Users
Column Headings: K = Knowledgeability C = Clarity of Response T = Timeliness P = Politeness
N = Nominated for Expert of the Month
| Date | User | K | C | T | P | N | Comments |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 2009-10-15 | mel | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | No | |
| 2009-10-15 | Dianna | 8 | 9 | 8 | 10 | No | Dear M, Thank you for your guidiance. I'm still struggling, but day by day i can see that i'm coping better. 4mths is short but because i put in my truest feelings, thus its inevitable that i am hurting still. It's my first time asking in such forums and all i can say is that these advices/opinions given by people from all walks of life do help me in moving on and becoming someone stronger. Thank you once again. (: Di. |
| 2009-07-07 | Tasha | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | No | Thank you for your time and advice. It brought to my attention that I also needed to do some self relfection and make changes in order to recieve them. I appreciate that you spend your time helping others out =] |
| 2009-05-14 | Andrew | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | I really do the appreciate the advice and it really worked. We talked and we understood each other and were willing to save the relationship. Thank you Melissa! |
| 2009-05-11 | kristy | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Prob. the best advice I have ever gotten. Thank you so much! |
| 2009-04-30 | Brenda | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Melissa was clear and understanding. She was supportive and encouraging also pointing out what I deserve in a relationship. She was able to clarify many questions very easily so I will be able to just get to the point. Thank you so much for your help!!! |
| 2009-04-26 | bobby | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | I will get the help I need to move on |
| 2009-04-25 | Bridgette | 10 | 9 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Helpful. |
| 2009-04-12 | Rashid | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Thanks Melissa!!! i was at dead end! anyway its life can't complain!! |
| 2009-04-09 | Karmin | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Thanks |
| 2009-04-02 | akeem | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | No | great advice but we called it quits yesterday |
| 2009-04-02 | Alix | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | No | thank so you much. ill try to use the information you gave me!!! |
| 2009-03-23 | M | 10 | 10 | 6 | 10 | Yes | Thank you so much Melissa - your response was very thoughtful and personal. I wish guys weren't so...dumb. Mr. Big never ends up with Carrie in real-life. :( I would have taken off a point b/c you're not a guy, but that would be...dumb. ;) It's very kind of you to take the time. |
| 2009-03-07 | Emely | 10 | 10 | 8 | 10 | No | Not the answer I was hoping to hear, but in all honestly it's the best answer I could of gotten. Thanks |
| 2008-11-25 | Monica | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | THANK YOU! |
| 2008-09-19 | Rob | 10 | 10 | 7 | 10 | Yes | Thank you very much for the well thought out answer. |
| 2008-09-18 | Richard | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | No | Thanks alot, I really do feel better. She and I have had conversations and I do feel a lot better about our relationship. |
| 2008-09-09 | Amy | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | I knew what the answer was going to be but it is easier to have it confirmed to stop guessing yourself. |
| 2008-09-06 | Amy | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Thank you so much. I appreciate it. |
| 2008-09-05 | Shelby | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | No | Thank you very much...I knew counseling was an option, but maybe we should really give it a try now. |
| 2008-09-02 | Cameron | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | No | Thank you for the help |
| 2008-08-15 | James | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | What a great site, and a great expert. Couldnt ask for better advice or a better opinion. Thank you very much for your help. |
| 2008-08-15 | Minia | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | No | Yeah, I did confront him about it, his defense was that he's "a guy who just forgot to change his status to 'in a relationship'. well I'll see where it goes. Thanks for the advice. |
| 2008-08-06 | Adrienne | 10 | 10 | 8 | 10 | No | Thanks for the advice! |
| 2008-07-28 | Steve | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | No | Melissa's response is very direct and clear and encouraging. I recomend her to anyone seeking advice. |
| 2008-07-02 | becky | 10 | 10 | 6 | 10 | No | thanks very much i enjoyed your answered and i think its the best thing for me to do also. |
| 2008-05-17 | pooja | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Hi, Both me and my boyfriend began our relationship with a clear understanding that we wouldnt affect each others life in any way and as of now, we don't have any long term plans. Reason one is that, when he asked me out, i was 19 and i did feel that at that age, i am not capable of taking a life time decision. Two, we both come from conservative indian families where arranged and within caste marriage is the norm. Though my parents my give in for my requests, his family would be very much against it. I doubt if my boyfriend would go against them ever, and even if no such problem arises, I don't want to get married into such a conservative family as I grew up in a liberal society though my parents ensured that liberty was not at the cost of traditional values, which itself used to make me feel freedom-less. But on the grounds of this temporary relationship, I feel he is just using me. Though you can say I am too, I feel I often ensure that I give him time and do full justice to the relationship which is always at the ..... |
| 2008-05-15 | Christina | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | No | Very insightful, thank you. |
| 2008-05-15 | Cora | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Thank you for the advice. I will try it. |
| 2008-05-14 | Anon101 | 9 | 9 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Thanks a lot for the quick response! I'll probably be posting later once I find out exactly what she did... |
Melissa Durazo
Expertise
I will not help you cheat, so please do not ask me how to. If you are having issues with a cheater or suspect your mate of cheating, then, I can help you deal with the issue. I may have the answers on how to confront and deal with a cheating man or woman. I can answer questions concerning the physical and mental anguish that a cheating mate can cause. advise how to move on from this type of relationship. Or, advise on how to forgive and work on fulfilling a new start. I can also help in recognizing the signs and lies of a cheater. As well, as how to catch one in the act.
Experience
I was in a 10 yr. relationship, in which the last 3 years of it was nothing but lies, cheating & emotional abuse. I almost lost my job, my friends and family because I could not let go of this co-dependent relationship. I went through a life changing experience and I came out realizing that I was stronger than I thought I was. I learned that no one is responsible for my happiness and well being. I also learned, that I will make mistakes, I will fall down, but, in the end, it's how I face the problem that will get me through the day.......
Education/Credentials
The school of Life. Life is all the education I have ever needed.
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