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K = Knowledgeability C = Clarity of Response T = Timeliness P = Politeness
N = Nominated for Expert of the Month
| Date | User | K | C | T | P | N | Comments |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 2009-11-23 | Siavash | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | |
| 2009-11-22 | Sai | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | No | Thank you somuch! it was very kind of you! and a real confident booster! |
| 2009-11-20 | John | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | |
| 2009-11-20 | sara | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | wow, thanks for the honest reply! I'll keep in mind all the information you wrote to me. You helped me look at the situation from a different perspective. |
| 2009-11-17 | John | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | |
| 2009-11-01 | Emma | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Thank you. |
| 2009-10-28 | Emma | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | No | I don't know how to thank you for all the words for me...I've consulted several experts in this website and no one really has provided so detailed and very considerated opinion for my story. It's exactly what happeded here and you're very very smart and insightful. I know it's very hard to comment other's story as I found I was not albe to describe every detail. But it seems that you are in my shoes and see everything clearly. Thanks again, sincerely. |
| 2009-10-24 | Ally | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Such a thoughtful answer. Thanks! |
| 2009-10-24 | Angie | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | thank you so much for your kind help! |
| 2009-10-20 | Ana | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | No | |
| 2009-10-20 | Brandon | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | I just want to thank you. That really meant a lot to hear that, and it truly gave me some peace of mind. Thank you for your sincerity and honestly. I needed that. |
| 2009-10-20 | Jan | 10 | 10 | 9 | 10 | No | Dear Michael, I also think that she has behaved a bit weird by doing those, but you are right; human interactions are not always logical.. Yet, I wouldn't do such a thing (saying that I would call and not doing so). It is in any case not polite. But anyhow, she is not the only woman in the world. So, it is time for me to move on! kind regards, Jan |
| 2009-10-19 | Colleen | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Thank you for your response! You pretty much validated where I am with the whole thing...time to move forward. Best! |
| 2009-10-13 | John | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | great advice man. thanx |
| 2009-10-06 | Siavash | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | |
| 2009-10-05 | Josh | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | |
| 2009-10-01 | karen | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | I'm so thankful for your advice. |
| 2009-09-30 | Sydra | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Amazing! The best insight I have ever had! I know where to go from here. Thank you! :) |
| 2009-09-27 | Chris | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | No | Thank you for your fast and detailed response. I already had an idea as to the real problem but you have helped me get things right in my mind. Many thanks. X |
| 2009-09-22 | Demetria Edison | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU SO MUCH!!!!! I was so inspired and motivated by what you wrote!!! I needed to read and understand just what you stated, so I thank you from the bottom of my heart!! You were right about everything and I am not about to be weak and give in to someone like him. I am WORTHY of being treated extremely well and so is everyone, and as Dr. Phil says: "Never settle for second best." Thanks again. Your kindness will always be appreciated. You have officially changed my life. Take care. |
| 2009-09-21 | Elizabeth | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Thank you so much Michael! Your answer was very thoughtful, honest, detailed and articulate. You gave me what I was looking for a more. |
| 2009-09-15 | Sylvia | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | No | Michael, hope you get well soon from your back pain. Thank you so much for the insight, for telling me the truth and helping me open my eyes. I know its this guy's loss now, I will move on and he will be a thing of the pass. One day he will regret not getting to know me better, you'll see and it will be too late! He has to grow up and suffer too!! He is 28 and me 33, no wonder why he acts soo inmature! |
| 2009-09-15 | sophia | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | |
| 2009-09-10 | Jenny | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | |
| 2009-08-28 | Stacy | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Thank you so much for taking the time to really help me understand it! |
| 2009-08-14 | Danielle | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | No | |
| 2009-08-13 | Tina | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | No | thank you so much. i love honesty and reading this all makes sense now. pity i have to see him at work lol. probably be easier. thank you again. |
| 2009-08-12 | Siavash | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | |
| 2009-08-07 | Scott | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | No | |
| 2009-08-06 | alex | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | No | ah, interesting. good to know |
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Answers by Expert:
A combination of the study of human behavior, the psychology behind those actions, interviews and significant personal experience. That intensive study has provided a deep understanding of interactions, an excellent education. Behavior, for both genders, is often about unspoken feelings, underlying motives and patterns. Learning to recognize what you're seeing in others and how to interpret the meaning will tell you what people are really thinking and why they're acting as they are. Understanding others is also about what is said and what isn't, what words are used and which ones aren't. The devil, it is said, is in the details. Subtleties matter. They often determine whether you connect as you desire, have disharmony or nothing at all with someone. If you are knowledgeable, naturally focused, experienced and perceptive, you can almost predict with certainty what is coming next.
Reporter who has done hundreds of interviews, researched material, approached strangers and dozens of acquaintances with dating, relationship and behavior questions as well as learned from numerous dating experiences. A highly attentive listener with strong skills of perception and a student of gender differences and nuances and human behavior. Answering questions around the world.
Publications
Newspaper and radio reporter, talk show host, freelance magazine writer on dating and online feature writer. Talk show guest in Atlanta, Georgia and San Francisco, California.
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Education/Credentials
B.A. in communications/public relations. Additional coursework and three internships in speech communications/broadcasting. Fieldwork and library of relationship & psychology literature. Have worked with over 700 people at Michael Talks Behavior, Culture and Relationships (U.S.) and over 30 more at the same name (U.K.), personal email and face-to-face.
Past/Present Clients
College students, military, divorced, people with romance in the workplace, substance abuse in relationships, emotional abuse in relationships, more.

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