Marriage and the Husband-Wife Relationship/Samantha

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      K = Knowledgeability    C = Clarity of Response    T = Timeliness    P = Politeness
      N = Nominated for Expert of the Month

DateUserKCTPNComments
2009-11-18Joe10101010YesThanks again. As clear and unambiguous as always. I will be in touch. Thank you Samantha.
2009-11-17Nick10101010YesThanks for taking the time Samantha...You pretty much stated exactly what I've been trying to do and the way I think about the situation. I guess I just needed to hear it.
2009-11-17Ricky10101010Yes 
2009-11-17David10101010YesThank you so very much for your reply Samantha, what you have said really does make a lot of sense! Them children are definatley my first priority! I know she loves our children very very much and would never do anything intentionaly to bring them to any harm, but I understand she does need help and is unable to care for them properly on her own, I would never insist on taking the children away from her, but I am going to insist that I am going to stay and help!! Thank you so much again Samantha, you have helped me put things into perspective. THANK YOU!!! :0)
2009-11-17K10101010YesThank you, Samantha, for your advice. It definitely helped give me more clarity and objectivity on the whole situation. It was very helpful and insightful. Thanks again--I truly appreciate it!
2009-11-15Brenda10101010YesVery level headed and sound advice, thank you.
2009-11-14carrie10101010YesI want to thank Samantha for volunterring her time to me personally! I can't tell you how much her advice has helped me, and the simple fact that someone out there has infact been thru this and I'm not alone! Word cannot express my gratitude for her halp and this website! Thank you again!!!
2009-11-13carrie10101010Yes 
2009-11-13Jo Ann10101010Yes 
2009-11-13Sharon10101010No 
2009-11-13Kushika10101010YesSuch an ausum person. understand others easily. i thankyou so much......
2009-11-12Sharon10101010No 
2009-11-12Sharon10101010No 
2009-11-12Kushika10101010Yes 
2009-11-11Anne10101010NoThank you for your thorough response. We talked yesterday and he decided on his own that he will quit drinking totally for a while, even if it's socially and just 1 beer. Also, he promised not to go out again late with the guys. If he does, we both go to see our parish priest together for counseling.
2009-11-11NANDI10101010No 
2009-11-10Kushika10101010YesYour guidance is good.....
2009-11-10Chris10101010NoThank you for the input. I discussed things with my wife and, while it could have gone better, it is a step in the right direction. I feel like I am always asking for sex so I just asked for some time for intamacy without and sexual advance and that was very good. We talked. It was great. Thanks again.
2009-11-07Jennifer10101010YesThanks for your time and directness. I agree with everything you said--sometimes having someone else lay it out in an orderly manner matter of factly is what is needed.
2009-11-05K10101010YesThank you for your advice. Hopefully, in due time he will come back to reality & realize what he has done to our marriage & work harder to make it better. Lots of prayers and again, Thank you.
2009-11-04david10101010Yes 
2009-11-02Lil10101010NoThank you for your response. I appreciate your honesty and directness. I know all of these things in my head, I suppose, but my heart is having a very difficult time getting on the same page! I know what he is doing is wrong, I know that. I know I should not put up with it. You know, I used to scoff at women that stayed with men that treated them badly, whether it was physical abuse or adultery...whatever the situation. All of the sudden, I find myself getting it. It is sad that I do, but I still love this man and I just cant turn it off. It seems like we are going ahead with the divorce, but if I am perfectly honest, I really wish we weren't! I know that makes me a fool. I know I am acting like a doormat. I know this is not the right example for my daughter. This is just a very terrible situation that I really wish would just go away! Rationally, I know that is not going to happen, but I still wish it would! Unfortunately, it looks like I am just going to have to somehow accept .....
2009-11-02Sana10101010No 
2009-10-30unknown10101010NoThank you for your help! I really already knew much of this but needed confirmation that I was'nt giving up to soon.
2009-10-30Jen10101010Yes 
2009-10-30gena10101010YesI appreciated her fast response and the detail in her answer...it was very thoughtful.
2009-10-30Joe10101010YesWhat an excellent, clear, empathetic Response!It is almost like you feel what i am feeling. God bless you Samantha. Thanks. Thanks.
2009-10-26iva10101010YesSamantha, Thank you a lot for precise information. Now I can clearly see that we had a very poor communication on this issues, and both of us had just a presumptions how the day will look like when his children come to visit. So, we missed the first step - communication. Thank you for detailed answers, and for advice to always hold on for a moment to listen to my guts instinct. Guess they are there for the reason. Thank you again.
2009-10-26Angie10101010YesThank you for your time; i greatly appreciate your help!
2009-10-25iva10101010YesSamantha answered me in a very clear manner, and now I know what should I do regarding this question, and regarding the future similar situations. I knew that I was disappointed with reason, but I simply needed someone more experienced to tell me what to do, and if I really am right on this. Thank you!

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I can answer most any questions regarding a husband/wife relationship. Whatever the question may be. I would like to help you find an answer to it. If you want an honest and unbiased opinion on things then ask away. I am a divorced mother of 4 children, I have been a single mother, and I'm currently remarried and have a 4th daughter with my husband. I know what it is like to have a spouse cheat on you, to be taken advantage of, to feel like everything is hopeless (being depressed), emotions (the up`s and down`s). I will try to answer anything you have on your mind about husband-wife relationships, divorce, adultery, etc. Please don`t hesitate to ask.

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I've been answering questions and helping my clients for the last 9 years. I have many satisfied and return clients. I have helped people from all over the world and from many different walks of life, cultures, etc.

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I have/had many repeats clients though the years I've been a volunteer here.

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