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N = Nominated for Expert of the Month
| Date | User | K | C | T | P | N | Comments |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 2009-08-02 | Brooke | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | |
| 2009-06-15 | gwen | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | thanks Melanie. Your advice was very helpful and I will take the proper actions and your helpful tips when meeting our mediator. |
| 2009-06-14 | Marie | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | She was a great help and she gave me the right solutions....which I thank her for...Michelle |
| 2009-05-10 | B | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Thank you so much Melanie. I am following your advice straight away. |
| 2009-04-27 | J | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Quick, detailed, helpful answer. Thanks much. |
| 2009-04-02 | Shelly | 8 | 10 | 10 | 10 | No | |
| 2009-03-25 | Glen | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | |
| 2009-02-18 | Sam | 10 | 10 | 9 | 10 | Yes | |
| 2008-12-16 | Cristina | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Very clear advice. Thank you for taking the time to answer my question. Definitely deserves Volunteer of the Month! :) |
| 2008-12-14 | Crystal | 9 | 10 | 10 | 10 | No | |
| 2008-12-14 | Larry | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | |
| 2008-12-04 | tabaitha | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Thank you so much melanie for the professional advice and the sisterly advice. You are absolutely right and since reading your advice I have started the process of letting it go and I feel so much better. I would let the situation consume me because I wanted her father to be there for her so bad but I recently told him that I'm not reaching out to him anymore and that if he truly wants to see her he would have to contact me and then make the effort and come pick her up. After two months of very little contact he asked if she can come over while they put up there xmas tree. I told him thats fine but I plan on explaining to him that if he cant see her on a consistent weekly basis after this then for her mental and emotional health i'm going to have to cut him off. She is only 2 years old now and doesn't know whats going on. My daughters father is married with a new baby thats about 4 to 5 months old and I truly think his current situation makes him limit my daughter. I hope the wife ..... |
| 2008-10-24 | Kevin | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | No | |
| 2008-10-24 | Tammy | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | No | Thank you so much. We will make an appointment with a local attorney at once to discuss the issue. Kind regards for your time and advice. |
| 2008-10-19 | Jenn | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Thanks so much for your feedback! I'll look into getting a local lawyer as you suggested. |
| 2008-08-25 | April | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | This has really helped. She suggested a couple of things that I did not think of . Thank You for your help! |
| 2008-08-02 | layde | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Melanie, I found your information very helpful because it made me feel more comfortable about what I said to my child's fathers mother. After saying no to the every saturday over night stay nothing has arised and my childs fathers mom has left me alone. Thanks so much for you perspective. I am glad the all expert site is available. |
| 2008-07-07 | rhonda | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Thank you so much Melanie, I really appricipate your taking the time to answer my question. Yuo words have calrified things for me and taken a big weight off my shoulders. Very best Regards, Rhonda |
| 2008-06-28 | Susan | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Answers that were detailed and precise- thank you somuch!! |
| 2008-05-10 | jon | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Thank you for your response. I appreciate your time. |
| 2008-05-09 | Helen Emerson | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | THANK YOU SO MUCH!! we will be following up ask you suggested thanks for your time and help. |
| 2008-05-07 | TERESA | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | THANK YOU VERY MUCH. YOUR ANSWER GAVE ME A GREAT STARTING POINT. I'M SURE I'LL CALL ON YOU AGAIN. ONCE I GET THE INFO FROM THE COURT HOUSE I WILL LET YOU KNOW ANY AND ALL RESULTS. WHAT ABOUT GETTING HIS NAME OFF THE HOUSE? |
| 2008-05-05 | WHITNEY | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | |
| 2008-03-28 | Alicia | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | No | Thank you for answering so quickly! Your answer was extremely helpful and appreciated. |
| 2008-03-24 | namita | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | No | |
| 2008-03-21 | Maneet | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | No | |
| 2008-03-13 | Kitania | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | Thank you so much! Is it possible to hire you as a mediator? Your advice and knowledge was extremely helpful to me. |
| 2008-02-04 | Annette | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | No | Melanie, your sincerity and understanding of the issues I am dealing with truly are appreciated. It is rare to find an individual who is truly in the business to help others and I can tell, that is your purpose, thank you, you have already helped more than you know. |
| 2008-02-04 | Christina | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | |
| 2008-01-25 | melissa | 10 | 10 | 10 | 10 | Yes | wonderful, great advice. Thank you so much. |
Answers by Expert:
I AM ACCEPTING QUESTIONS FROM PEOPLE IN CALIFORNIA ONLY OR QUESTIONS REGARDING CALIFORNIA. As a Mediator with a high settlement record, I am able to answer questions about negotiation, strategy, mediation, how to choose a divorce lawyer, choices and paths to take when embarking upon a family law matter. Also able to give extensive and creative co-parenting solutions. Custody, division of property, child support, spousal support, divorce process and procedure, in a neutral and non advisory fashion. I am unable to give direct legal advice on the internet and hope that all answers are viewed in the context of the limitations of this type of forum. I will endeavor however to provide an informative answer that is educational by nature. I have developed a unique form of Family Law Mediation and document assistance and provide my services through the Company I founded in 2000, PRIVATE COURTS. I utilize my experience as a divorce coach. Most people do not know what this is and you can read about it on my website at: http://www.privatecourts.com/divorcecoaching.html I draw your attention to this because it may be a good idea to recommend this newish modality to persons going through divorce. Please do not ask questions if you do not intend checking to see them. Also rating the answers is helpful to the expert and to other questiners. Thanks for your understanding. PLEASE IF YOU ASK A QUESTION COME BACK AND CHECK THE ANSWER - EXPERTS TAKE A LOT OF TME DOING THIS SERVICE AND ITS DEMORALIZING IF YOU DONT READ THE ANSWERS...THANKS.
Twenty five years as a lawyer, business owner, and mediator.
Organizations
VP on Board of Fair Housing of Marin. (FHOM) Various ADR Panels and membership organizations. See website fr details www.privatecourts.com
LGBT - www.divorcemediator.us
Advocacy and blogging www.oblogdeeoblogda.wordpress.com
Education/Credentials
BA LLB LLM

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