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Looking for a lifelong, loving relationship? I`ve been with the same partner for 30+ years and it`s not just a coincidence. I`ve worked at it and the first part was to find the right man for me. I hope I can help you do the same. (I`ve also read a lot about the subject and know many couples - some who have made poor partner decisions and others who`ve maintained a lifelong relationship of love.) This information would be appropriate for either gender.
My own marriage has worked out great, though it has taken work, I've learned a lot and continue to learn. I realize, though, that everyone is different and so is each relationship, so I enjoy observing others.

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